Motherly talks with young housekeepers: embracing eighty-seven brief articles on topics of home interest, and about five hundred choice receipts for cooking, etc.Beecher, H. W., Mrs.
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Motherly talks with young housekeepers: embracing eighty-seven brief articles on topics of home interest, and about five hundred choice receipts for cooking, etc.
Beecher, H. W., Mrs.
Cooking; Home economics
The mother whom we spoke of in the last article, like many more who
fully understand her difficulties,--for they are passing over the same
rough road,--felt her trust and faith failing; yea, would “gladly
lie down and die,” before half her threescore years and ten were
accomplished, might she escape the responsibility of teaching her
children, and using her best faculties (no one is asked to do any more)
to train them up into noble men and women. The task appeared so hard,
the way so long, and her faith so weak!
Now another mother claims, at least, our fullest sympathy,--a Rachel,
“mourning for her children, and refusing to be comforted, because they
are not.” One after another has been taken from her, and each one at
“the most interesting age.”
When is this “most interesting” age? Can a mother draw the line? In
early babyhood the precious gift nestles in her bosom, and lives
entirely through her life,--so dependent on her for every care and
comfort, that no one else can attempt to supply her place. Utterly
helpless as the babe is, when the mother realizes how necessary to its
life is her ceaseless watchfulness, can there be any period when it
will be so interesting, so dear to her heart, as now, in this state of
complete dependence?
But slowly it emerges from this helpless condition. Its first
recognition, its first smiles and playfulness, are all bewitching. What
can be more lovely? A few weeks pass, and it can sit alone; then it
begins to creep; now, with what absorbing interest the first steps are
watched, and commented upon with a pride and earnestness as if no child
ever did all these things before. The mother’s heart is overflowing
with love and tenderness; but God calls, and the lovely babe is forever
hid from her sight.
How can she bear it? Whose sorrow was ever like unto hers? Why is
it that God has sent this trial? What lesson can be taught by it,
that will do half the good which that child’s presence would have
accomplished? What is there in the care, the anxieties of watching over
its maturing, which can be thought a hardship? How joyfully would this
mother bear all this, if the life of her child might have been spared!
She longs to lie down and die, not because of the responsibility which
she knows would have increased with every added year,--she could have
trusted her Father to give her strength sufficient for those duties.
Her faith and trust fail, because God took her child from her, and in
her anguish she cries, “Why am I thus bereaved?” In answer to these
sad questions we can only say, “What ye know not now ye shall know
hereafter.” In the first bitterness of this grief, there is nothing
more to be said.
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