Motherly talks with young housekeepers: embracing eighty-seven brief articles on topics of home interest, and about five hundred choice receipts for cooking, etc.Beecher, H. W., Mrs.
General
Motherly talks with young housekeepers: embracing eighty-seven brief articles on topics of home interest, and about five hundred choice receipts for cooking, etc.
Beecher, H. W., Mrs.
Cooking; Home economics
We see nothing that this dissatisfied woman has to complain of, but
are inclined to think she has been infected with those pernicious
doctrines which have led to loud complaints about women,--defrauded
of her _rights_, woman’s cruel subjugation,--doctrines with which we
have less and less patience, because we see more and more clearly the
mistakes and mischief which have sprung and will continue to spring
from them, unless the “plague is stayed.” No doubt many a woman is
oppressed and treated unkindly, often cruelly, and made to feel that
she is placed by her husband in a subordinate position, instead of
reigning _with_ him over their home,--his other self with equal rights
and power, as is only meet,--having charge of one department, while
he takes another for which his stronger organization and peculiar
masculine abilities are better adapted. The husband to superintend the
outside, severer duties: the wife as God prepared her to be, the mother
watching over infancy, and through those duties made less physically
strong, but giving grace and refinement to the home, which, without
her,--under masculine supervision,--would degenerate into coarseness
and inelegance.
We know there are many overtaxed, broken-down women who by kindness and
just appreciation might have been saved, and remained altogether lovely
and refined, making their homes like Paradise before the fall.
There are also many broken-down men, dispirited, uneasy of life, ruined
by the frivolity, irritability, and extravagance of their wives, whom
a refined, sensible, loving woman, would have redeemed and made happy,
noble, and godlike.
We imagine the rights and the wrongs are about equally divided on
either side. The deceitfulness of the human heart, the natural
depravity, unsubdued, left to run wild and ungoverned, seeking
not the peace and happiness of the chosen partner, but their own
selfish gratification, has changed many a noble man into a reckless,
uncomfortable, unprincipled husband, or an arbitrary and harsh domestic
tyrant. And the same selfish indulgence and unregulated passions have
also changed many a woman, capable of shining in her appropriate
sphere as mother, or home refiner, into an irritable, unsatisfied
fireside torment.
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