Motherly talks with young housekeepers: embracing eighty-seven brief articles on topics of home interest, and about five hundred choice receipts for cooking, etc.Beecher, H. W., Mrs.
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Motherly talks with young housekeepers: embracing eighty-seven brief articles on topics of home interest, and about five hundred choice receipts for cooking, etc.
Beecher, H. W., Mrs.
Cooking; Home economics
When a child has been repeatedly shown precisely how to do certain
things, begin to leave these little _chores_ for it to do alone when
you are not near. Let it be something trivial at first, of course. Say
to the little two-year-old, “Mamma must go out for a little while. I
am sorry to leave the nursery in such disorder; but Eddie is such a
helpful little man, he will put all the blocks and ‘Noah’s Ark’ up just
as I like to see them; and little Kitty, too, knows how I wish her to
fold the doll’s clothes and lay them in the drawer, when her play is
over; I am sure this room will look very nice when I return.”
If this kindly training is begun early, do you not know how proud
and happy these miniature men and women will feel when this work is
intrusted to their care,--a token of mother’s confidence in their
ability? Of course, it may be necessary to be a little _short-sighted_
when you return, and pass over for the time some few items that
will bear improvement; but let these wait. Appear pleased--_be
pleased_--with their efforts; give as much sweet praise as is
judicious, to gladden their little hearts. It will be time enough when
the next trial is made to say, “I think I would fold this little dress
so,” or, “Put those books here.” Gentle hints, interspersed with all
possible approval, will fix the lesson, so that you can soon feel safe
to put the play-room almost wholly in the care of quite young children,
except the sweeping or other work beyond their strength. But these
lessons, as we said before, must begin early, else the child will learn
to prefer being waited upon to doing the work itself.
As your child can bear it, add year by year to the trust and
responsibility. Accept the labor as a love-offering to save your time
and strength, and it will not be long before willing hands and happy
hearts will really lighten your labors, and save you many weary steps,
while at the same time they are learning a lesson that will do them
good through life. Vary the teaching, by sending the child, by and
by, out to do a little shopping,--some small thing, but such as will
call for the exercise of taste and a little judgment; nothing of much
importance, so that, should there chance to be a slight mistake, no
great harm will follow; yet so much that the child, by thus learning to
judge and discriminate in small things, will be preparing for greater
ones.
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