Motherly talks with young housekeepers: embracing eighty-seven brief articles on topics of home interest, and about five hundred choice receipts for cooking, etc.Beecher, H. W., Mrs.
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Motherly talks with young housekeepers: embracing eighty-seven brief articles on topics of home interest, and about five hundred choice receipts for cooking, etc.
Beecher, H. W., Mrs.
Cooking; Home economics
We have never found in the city more graceful, ladylike, intelligent,
pure-minded girls than we have seen in the country; but we have
sometimes noticed that those who live nearest to the city, or
have spent much time there, too often acquire artificial habits,
affectation, coquetry, loud, bold speech, or a fondness for dress, too
stylish for a truly modest girl’s adorning, that is seldom seen in
real country life. We do not think that any kind or amount of labor
will make one less modest or ladylike. We believe that our girls
should know how to do, with their own hands, everything that they have
strength for, and thereby secure and establish vigor and capacity
for duties that, in after years, may fall to their lot. We do not
mean that outdoor labor should be their habitual employment. We wish
them to have the actual knowledge; but the heavier work, which more
appropriately belongs to boys and men, should be undertaken by girls
and women only on an emergency. Then love or will, or both united, can
make woman strong to do the hardest work, if she has the knowledge,
while the necessity lasts. It is because such calls may be made on
every one all through life, that we would have each one secure the
knowledge early; but in extreme cases, the overstrain on a woman’s
physical life, if long continued, will compel the payment of large
interest in later years, and therefore should be undertaken through
necessity only. God has not organized man and woman alike, physically;
nor, do we believe, mentally either. We hasten to add, lest we should
be arraigned for heresy, that we do not say they are not _equal_, but
only _different_; the question of equality we wait for their own works
to answer. Woman has sweeter, tenderer, dearer duties, demanding an
organization distinct from that which fits man for his rougher, harder,
more extended, more public, but not more noble work. We hear of women
who have cut down their timber, built their walls, ploughed their
fields, or done the blacksmithing for the neighborhood with their own
hands, from choice,--a kind of work which we could not do, and would
not if we could, unless driven to it by some pressing necessity; but
we should like to store up the knowledge how to do it against the time
of need. Still, we need not object if others take pleasure in it. Yet
will not their own bodies, when they leave youth behind and go down to
middle age, bear witness against the unnatural strain which they have
been subjected to? Those whose office it is “to replenish the earth”
cannot make these violent drafts upon their system with impunity. It is
not for a regular, daily occupation that we would desire to have girls
taught how to do their brothers’ work as well as their own, though
much that pertains to that will always be pleasant and attractive, and
light work in the open air will always furnish healthy exercise for
our girls; but we want to see every member of the family so educated
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