Motherly talks with young housekeepers: embracing eighty-seven brief articles on topics of home interest, and about five hundred choice receipts for cooking, etc.Beecher, H. W., Mrs.
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Motherly talks with young housekeepers: embracing eighty-seven brief articles on topics of home interest, and about five hundred choice receipts for cooking, etc.
Beecher, H. W., Mrs.
Cooking; Home economics
Mrs. Potiphar, it seems, “picks up a little girl in New York, and goes
through all the trouble, discomfort, and anxiety of teaching her, until
she becomes, at last, a very useful and efficient servant.” Those who
have undertaken the training of young girls, not their own, will agree
that Mrs. Potiphar’s task was not an enviable one, and that the girl
owed her a debt of gratitude, which faithful, willing service alone
could pay. As the child improved under this training, wages were given,
until after five years’ education she received ten dollars a month.
Mrs. Potiphar, appreciating the good qualities the girl had developed,
failed not to give her ample praise; said she was “worth her weight in
gold,” an expression very common, yet not usually taken literally; but
she did not increase her wages. It may have been that she gave all that
the work demanded of her was worth, or all that she could afford to
give; it matters not which; it is no evidence, however, that she wished
to defraud the girl of her just dues; it argues no injustice on Mrs.
Potiphar’s part. But good friends, kind neighbors, behind her back,
said it was a shame to pay Sophia so little; while to the lady’s face,
however, they gave smiles and congratulations “upon her good luck.”
Ah, what a pity that gossiping, meddling, and backbiting should be
found in this beautiful world of ours. How much trouble and mischief
these vices have caused! Much of the discomfort and disturbance in
our households springs from this evil spirit, making servants fickle
and unfaithful, and their mistresses’ life a burden. And it is all
so needless! There is little fear, even when not tampered with, that
girls will remain long on low wages, unless the privileges and kind
care bestowed upon them are of more value than larger pay, and they
have the good sense so to understand it. Every girl has a perfect right
to seek the highest remuneration, and so that she gives her present
employer reasonable notice, to enable her to secure other assistance,
or to offer her larger wages, however great the disappointment to the
lady may be, the girl has acted honorably and is worthy of no censure.
But in the case cited by “Laicus,” Mrs. Chessleburg’s course is so
repugnant, so foreign to all our ideas of honor, that we should hope
there was some mistake in print, did we not know such acts are of daily
occurrence.
Mrs. Potiphar has an excellent waiting-maid, just what Mrs. Chessleburg
wants. Mrs. Chessleburg is much exercised in her mind because Mrs.
Potiphar gives the poor girl such low wages.
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