Actresses -- Great Britain -- Biography; Siddons, Sarah, 1755-1831
The kitchen-garden, true to keeping,
Has length and breadth and width so plenty;
A snail, if fairly set a-creeping,
Could scarce go round while you told twenty.
7.
Perhaps you’ll cry, on hearing this,
What! everything so very small?
No; she that made it what it is
Has greatness that makes up for all.
Mr. Siddons passed some weeks at Westbourne, but, finding the rheumatism
from which he suffered only relieved at Bath, he was obliged to reside
there almost permanently. Bath did not agree with Mrs. Siddons, and
the exigencies of her profession obliged her to live in London. This
difference in their place of abode caused a rumour to get abroad that a
formal separation had taken place. Mr. Boaden, indeed, states explicitly
that Siddons became at this time somewhat impatient of the “crown
matrimonial,” while Campbell declares the report to be “absolutely
unfounded.”
In judging the case we think, perhaps, a medium course would be the best
to take. We can imagine a decided incompatibility in the husband’s and
wife’s mode of seeing things. She was ever impatient towards want of
energy and practical capacity, while he, all his life having to play
second to her, was jealous of the disposal of her earnings, and rushed
into ill-judged investments and speculations.
The following letter of good-humoured banter, written to him on the
16th December 1804, reveals the manner in which she turned off his weak
ebullitions of temper:—
“MY DEAR SID.,
“I am really sorry that my little flash of merriment should
have been taken so seriously, for I am sure, however we may
differ in trifles, _we can never cease to love each other_. You
wish me to say what I expect to have done. I can expect nothing
more than you yourself have designed me in your will. Be (as
you ought to be) the master of all while God permits; but, in
case of your death, only let me be put out of the power of any
person living. This is all that I desire; and I think that you
cannot but be convinced that it is reasonable and proper.
“Your ever affectionate and faithful,
“S. S.”
The wife’s was the stronger, more powerful mind, and with her sincerity
and openness of disposition which impelled her to show everything she
thought or felt, we have no doubt she often offended the irritable vanity
of a man who, in small things, had a painful sense of his own dignity.
Hers was too big a nature to nag and fight about trifles, and at the
same time often too self-absorbed to remember how she offended the
susceptibilities of others.
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