“Oh, stay with me, then,” I said to her. “You know how unsociable I am; I feel sure that I shall be stupid.” At the time fixed my visitors were announced. This was the first time I had come into contact with any members of the English aristocracy, and I have always had since a very pleasant memory of it. Lady R—— was extremely beautiful, and the Duchess was so gracious, so distinguished, and so kind that I was very much touched by her visit. A few minutes later Lord Dudley called. I knew him very well, as he had been introduced to me by Marshal Canrobert, one of my dearest friends. He asked me if I would care to have a ride the following morning, and he said he had a very nice lady’s horse which was entirely at my service. I thanked him, but I wanted first to drive in Rotten Row. At seven o’clock Hortense Damain came to fetch me to dine with her at the house of the Baroness M——. She had a very nice house in Prince’s Gate. There were about twenty guests, among others the painter Millais. I had been told that the _cuisine_ was very bad in England, but I thought this dinner perfect. I had been told that the English were cold and sedate: I found them charming and full of humour. Every one spoke French very well, and I was ashamed of my ignorance of the English language. After dinner there were recitations and music. I was touched by the gracefulness and tact of my hosts in not asking me to recite any poetry. I was very much interested in observing the society in which I found myself. It did not in any way resemble a French gathering. The young girls seemed to be enjoying themselves on their own account, and enjoying themselves thoroughly. They had not come there to find a husband. What surprised me a little was the _décolleté_ of ladies who were getting on in years and to whom time had not been very merciful. I spoke of this to Hortense Damain. “It’s frightful!” I said. “Yes, but it’s chic.” She was very charming, my friend Hortense, but she troubled about nothing that was not _chic_. She sent me the “_Chic_ commandments” a few days before I left Paris: _Chester Square tu habiteras._ In Chester Square thou shalt live _Rotten Row tu monteras_ In Rotten Row thou shalt ride _Le Parlement visiteras_ Parliament thou shalt visit _Garden-parties fréquenteras_ Garden parties thou shalt frequent, _Chaque visite tu rendras_ Every visit thou shalt return _A chaque lettre tu repondras_ Every letter thou shalt answer _Photographies tu signeras_ Photographs thou shalt sign _Hortense Damain tu écouteras_ To Hortense Damain thou shalt listen _Et tous ses conseils, les And all her counsels thou shalt suivras._ follow.