she gives her care and service to all. She has no fears for herself;
she would as soon die as live, provided only she is doing her duty.
Perhaps, away down in the very core of her heart, her natural maternal
instinct teaches her that these struggling, contesting masses of men
are more or less enraged children, tormented and driven by bigger boys
than themselves to fall upon each other and slay without thought--she
may sometimes think wistfully that had they sought her counsel they
might have found some better way out of their quarrel than the killing
of their brothers--but, until lately, her rôle through all the
centuries has been the mistaken one of submission to man’s caprice
or ordainment, and any attempt at individuality on her part has been
decried as a perversion of sex. Now the question of sex, reduced
to first principles, appears to be that woman should find her sole
content as the “vessel” of man’s pleasure--the breeder and nurse of his
offspring and no more. This great war has somewhat altered the lines of
the masculine perspective, for men have been forced to admit that women
can do all their work as well as themselves, and sometimes better. They
can even build ships and aeroplanes, and all this without losing the
spirit of womanliness. Strange as it may seem, the woman who might
lately have been seen hammering at the keel of a “Dreadnought” can
prove herself soft-handed in tending the wounded, and most reverently
loving in her last cares for the dying and the dead. She has mastered
her nerves--those “Early Victorian” nerves which shuddered fastidiously
at the sight of blood, and sent their hysterical owners into a swoon
when dangers or difficulties arose, in order to create fresh confusion;
she knows the great secret of self-control, and the wonderful vigour
and courage which are born of that fine quality. There are very few
women nowadays who scream at the sight of a mouse! But this was
considered quite “the proper thing” to do in Jane Austen days, just
as in some of the queer old novels written before the grand romances
of Sir Walter Scott, the heroines invariably “fainted away” when the
lover of the piece declared his passion. Women know that “lover of the
piece” fairly well by this time, and all his limitations--sufficiently,
at any rate, to be convinced that there is nothing in him worth even a
pretended “swoon,” though there may be much that _is_ worth cherishing,
guiding, and inspiring to the best purposes. Not every man is like a
certain one I wot of, who, after being nursed for three months in a
friend’s house, said to that friend and hostess on the day he left in
restored health,--“If you want a man to like you, never do anything for
him!” This was not said in jest, but in grim and churlish earnest. It
was a curious recompense for three months’ watchful anxiety and care,
but I dare say she realised then, if never before, that “one cannot
make a silk purse out of a sow’s ear.” Fortunately there are few such
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