My Wife and I; Or, Harry Henderson's HistoryStowe, Harriet Beecher
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My Wife and I; Or, Harry Henderson's History
Stowe, Harriet Beecher
American fiction -- 19th century; Courtship -- Fiction; Marriage -- Fiction; Romance fiction
"Yes, but it takes courage to get out alone, at some desolate way
station, and set up your tent, and make your way, and have everybody in
the cars screaming remonstrances or laughing at you. Ida has the courage
to do it, but I haven't. I don't believe in myself enough to do it, so I
stay in the car, and wish I didn't, and wish we were all going a better
way than we do."
"No," said Ida; "women are brought up in a way to smother all the life
out of them. All literature from the earliest ages teaches them that it
is graceful to be pretty and helpless; they aspire to be superficial and
showy. They are directed to look on themselves as flowers--
Gay without toil, and lovely without art,
They spring to cheer the sense, and warm the heart;
Nor blush, my fair, to be compared to these--
Your best, your noblest mission, is _to please_."
"Well," said Eva, flushing, "wasn't it a _man_ that wrote that? and
don't they always misunderstand us? We _are_ soft--we _are_ weak--we
_do_ love beauty, and ease, and comfort; but there is a something in us
more than they give us credit for. Where is that place in Carlyle?" she
said, rising with a hasty impulse, and taking down a volume, and running
rapidly over the leaves--"Oh, here it is!" and she read with energy from
Carlyle's _Hero Worship_:
'It is a calumny to say that men are nerved to heroic action by ease,
hope of pleasure, recompense--sugar-plums of any kind--in this world
or the next. In the meanest mortal there is something nobler. The
poor, swearing soldier, hired to be shot, has his honor of a soldier
different from drill, regulations, and the shilling a day. It is not
to taste sweet things, but to _do_ noble and true things, and
vindicate himself under God's heaven as a God-made man, that the
poorest son of Adam dimly longs. Show him the way of doing that, and
the dullest drudge kindles into a hero.
'They wrong man greatly who say he is to be seduced by ease.
Difficulty, abnegation, martyrdom, death, are _allurements_ that act on
the heart of man. Kindle the inner genial life of him, and you have a
flame that burns up all lower considerations.'
"Now," she said, her face glowing, and bringing down her little fist
with emphasis, "_that_ is true of _women_ as well as men. They wrong
woman greatly who say she is to be seduced by ease. Difficulty,
abnegation, martyrdom, death, are _allurements_ that act on the heart of
woman. Now, Mr. Henderson, every woman that _is_ a woman, feels this in
the depths of her heart, and it is this feeling suppressed that is at
the bottom of a great deal of unhappiness in woman's life. You men have
your chance to express it--that is your great good fortune. You are
called to be heroes--your hour comes--but we are buried under eternal
common-places and trifles."
Public-domain text, read in full here on John Shaqi.
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