My Wife and I; Or, Harry Henderson's HistoryStowe, Harriet Beecher
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My Wife and I; Or, Harry Henderson's History
Stowe, Harriet Beecher
American fiction -- 19th century; Courtship -- Fiction; Marriage -- Fiction; Romance fiction
If novels are to be considered true pictures of real life we must
believe that the fall from wealth to poverty is a less serious evil in
America than in any other known quarter of the world.
In English novels the failure of a millionaire is represented as
bringing results much the same as the commission of an infamous crime.
Poor old Mr. Sedley fails and forthwith all his acquaintances cut him;
nobody calls on his wife or knows her in the street; the family who have
all along been courting his daughter for their son and kissing the
ground at her feet, now command the son to break with her, and turn him
out of doors for marrying her.
In America it is quite otherwise. A man fails without losing friends,
neighbors, and the consideration of society. He moves into a modest
house, finds some means of honest livelihood, and everybody calls on his
wife as before. Friends and neighbors as they have opportunity are glad
to stretch forth a helping hand, and a young fellow who should break his
engagement with the daughter at such a crisis would simply be scouted as
infamous.
Americans have been called worshipers of the almighty dollar, and they
certainly are not backward in that species of devotion, but still these
well-known facts show that our worship is not, after all, so absolute as
that of other quarters of the world.
Mr. Van Arsdel commanded the respect and sympathy of the influential men
of New York. The inflexible honesty and honor with which he gave up all
things to his creditors won sympathy, and there was a united effort
made to procure for him an appointment in the Custom House, which would
give him a comfortable income. In short, by the time that my wedding-day
arrived, the family might be held as having fallen from wealth into
competence. The splendid establishment on Fifth Avenue was to be sold.
It was, in fact, already advertised, and our wedding was to be the last
act of the family drama in it. After that we were to go to my mother's,
in the mountains of New Hampshire, and Mr. Van Arsdel's family were to
spend the summer at the old farm-homestead where his aged parents yet
kept house.
Our wedding preparations therefore went forward with a good degree of
geniality on the part of the family, and with many demonstrations of
sympathy and interest on the part of friends and relations. A genuine
love-marriage always and everywhere evokes a sort of instinctive warmth
and sympathy. The most worldly are fond of patronizing it as a
delightful folly, and as Eva had been one of the most popular girls of
her set she was flooded with presents.
And now the day of days was at hand, and for the last time I went up the
steps of the Van Arsdel mansion to spend a last evening with Eva Van
Arsdel.
Public-domain text, read in full here on John Shaqi.
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