My Wife and I; Or, Harry Henderson's HistoryStowe, Harriet Beecher
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My Wife and I; Or, Harry Henderson's History
Stowe, Harriet Beecher
American fiction -- 19th century; Courtship -- Fiction; Marriage -- Fiction; Romance fiction
"Stumpy's beauty is so entirely moral that I fear it never would be
popularly appreciated; besides, poor brute, he is quite capable of dying
for love of me if I gave him up. That's an accomplishment few men attain
to. Well, Hal, go to bed now, or you'll be too sleepy to behave
respectably to-morrow. God bless you!"
CHAPTER XLIV.
THE WEDDING JOURNEY.
A wedding journey,--what is it? A tour to all the most expensive and
fashionable hotels and watering-places. The care of Saratoga trunks and
bonnet-boxes. The display of a fashionable wardrobe made purposely for
this object, and affording three altogether new and different toilets a
day.
Very well.
Doubtless all this may coexist with true love; and true lovers, many and
ardent, have been this round, and may again, and been and be none the
worse for it. For where true love is, it is not much matter whatever
else is or is not.
But when the Saratoga trunks, the three dresses a day, and the display
of them to Mrs. Grundy, have been the substitute for love and one of the
impelling motives to marriage, or when they absorb all those means and
resources on which domestic comfort and peace should be built during the
first years of married life, then they are simply in Scriptural phrase
"the abomination of desolation, standing where it ought not."
Yet apart from that there is to me a violation of the essential
sacredness of the holiest portion of mortal life in exposing it to the
glare of everyday observation. It seems as if there were something so
wonderful and sacred in that union by which man and woman, forsaking all
others, cleave to each other, that its inception requires quiet
solitude, the withdrawal from the common-place and bustling ways of
ordinary life.
The two, more to each other than all the world besides, are best left to
the companionship of nature. Carpets of moss are better than the most
elaborate of fashionable hotel furniture; birds and squirrels are more
suitable companions than men and women.
Our wedding was a success, so far as cheerfulness and enjoyment was
concerned. The church had been garlanded and made fair and sweet by the
floral tributes of many friendly hands. Jim Fellows and one or two of
the other acquaintances of the family had exerted themselves to produce
a very pretty effect. The wedding party was one of relatives and near
friends only, without show or parade, but with a great deal of good
taste. There was the usual amount of weeping among the elderly female
relatives, particularly on the part of Aunt Maria, who insisted on
maintaining a purely sepulchral view of our prospects on life.
Ever since the failure of Mr. Van Arsdel, Aunt Maria had worn this
aspect, and seemed to consider all demonstrations of lightness of heart
and cheerfulness on the part of the family as unsuitable trifling with a
dreadful dispensation.
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