My Wife and I; Or, Harry Henderson's HistoryStowe, Harriet Beecher
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My Wife and I; Or, Harry Henderson's History
Stowe, Harriet Beecher
American fiction -- 19th century; Courtship -- Fiction; Marriage -- Fiction; Romance fiction
"And deliver the distressed damsel?" she said, laughing. "Well, when he
comes I'll show him my 'swan's nest among the reeds.' Soberly, the fact
is, cousin," she said, "you men don't know us women. In the first place
they say that there are more of us born than there are of you: and that
doesn't happen merely to give you a good number to choose from, and
enable every widower to find a supernumerary; it is because it was meant
that some women should lead a life different from the domestic one. The
womanly nature can be of use otherwhere besides in marriage, in our
world. To be sure, for the largest class of women there is nothing like
marriage, and I suppose the usages of society are made for the majority,
and exceptional people mustn't grumble if they don't find things
comfortable; but I am persuaded that there is a work and a way for those
who cannot marry."
"Well, there's Uncle Jacob has just been preaching to me that no _man_
can be developed fully without a wife," said I.
"Uncle Jacob has matrimony on the brain! it's lucky he isn't a despotic
Czar or, I believe, he'd marry all the men and women, _wille nille_. I
grant that the rare, real marriage, that occurs one time in a hundred,
is the true ideal state for man and woman, but it doesn't follow that
all and everything that brings man and woman together in marriage is
blessed, and I take my stand on St. Paul's doctrine that there are both
men and women called to some higher state; now, it seems to me that the
number of these increases with the advancement of society. Marriage
requires so close an intimacy that there must be perfect agreement and
sympathy; the lower down in the scale of being one is, the fewer
distinctive points there are of difference or agreement. It is easier
for John and Patrick, and Bridget and Katy, to find comfortable sympathy
and agreement than it is for those far up in the scale of life where
education has developed a thousand individual tastes and peculiarities.
We read in history of the Rape of the Sabines, and how the women thus
carried off at hap-hazard took so kindly to their husbands that they
wouldn't be taken back again. Such things are only possible in the
barbarous stages of society, when characters are very rudimentary and
simple. If a similar experiment were made on women of the cultivated
classes in our times I fancy some of the men would be killed; I know
_one_ would,"--she said with an energetic grasp of her little fist and a
flash out of her eyes.
"But the ideal marriage is the thing to be sought," said I.
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