Negroes and Negro "Slavery:" the first an inferior race: the latter its normal condition.Van Evrie, John H.
History
Negroes and Negro "Slavery:" the first an inferior race: the latter its normal condition.
Van Evrie, John H.
African Americans; Slavery -- Justification; Slavery -- United States
and replenish the earth,” the Almighty Creator has given us reason and
endowed us with capacities of affection which are designed to guide us
in these respects. A youth and maiden are thrown into each other’s
society, an acquaintance, an intimacy, a mutual affection and reciprocal
love follow. They feel themselves united, not merely harmonized, but
morally consolidated, as it were, into a single being, and they mutually
pledge each other to be thus as long as they both shall live. They are
united, not by their pledges to each other, their mutual declarations of
affection, but by those beautiful and mysterious affinities that God has
planted in the soul itself, and the pledges and promises are the mere
outward expression of their actual existence.
It is thus sometimes said that marriages are made in Heaven, for there
is an eternal fitness, a complete unity or oneness in these impalpable
agencies which, whatever may be the seeming incongruities of character
in some instances, thus link together for ever these human souls as well
as persons. Alas! that it should so often be mistaken—that pride and
vanity, or a groveling and sinful lust, should be imposed on the simple
and loving heart of woman as the counterpart of her own glowing and
beautiful affection; and the man guilty of this frightful sin, this
“gallantry,” as the corrupt and rotten society of Europe designates the
desecration of a woman’s soul, commits a crime infinitely more atrocious
than murder or the mere destruction of the body of his victim.
Unfortunately, too, accident, imperfect education, circumstances, a
thousand things may and do lead both parties to mistake each other or
themselves, and to rush into marriage only to discover a few months
later, that they were deluded and deceived, and instead of that perfect
unity of feeling, of affection, of soul, which they had believed in,
there were contradictions and repugnances that no gentleness of temper
or strength of reason or length of time could ever change, and therefore
in sullen despair they settle down into hopeless apathy, or still worse,
shock and scandalize society by a reckless violation of its laws as well
as of the personal vows so sacredly pledged at the altar. But when the
instincts of natural affection have been guided by reason and a true
perception of the wants and nature of each other, and that perfect unity
of feeling and of purpose exists which flows from this reciprocal
adaptation of the parties, then there is marriage in its true sense, for
then two relatively imperfect beings are united into one complete whole.
And if we could suppose this husband and wife living for themselves
alone, and isolated from all association with others, then nothing more
would be needed. They were united by affection, by adaptation, by true
perceptions of each other’s wants, by those mysterious affinities which
we call love, in short, by an organic and eternal fitness, and their
Public-domain text, read in full here on John Shaqi.
Reviews
Reviews
No reviews yet
Be the first to share your thoughts on this work.
Elsewhere in the archive
Join the Discussion
Join the discussion
Sign in to leave a comment or review.
Sign InorCreate an account