Obstetrical Nursing: A Text-Book on the Nursing Care of the Expectant Mother, the Woman in Labor, the Young Mother and Her BabyVan Blarcom, Carolyn Conant
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Obstetrical Nursing: A Text-Book on the Nursing Care of the Expectant Mother, the Woman in Labor, the Young Mother and Her Baby
Van Blarcom, Carolyn Conant
Infants -- Care; Maternity nursing; Pregnancy
In fact, by virtue of the deep significance of the states of pregnancy
and motherhood, and the long period of time through which they continue,
it is scarcely possible for them not to produce a mental effect of some
sort upon the average woman. Sometimes this effect is a very happy one;
but all too often it is quite the reverse. It is safe to say that the
majority of maternity patients are passing through deep waters, and the
nurse’s usefulness to these charges will be greatly broadened if she has
at least some understanding of the cause and character of these mental
sufferings.
In the ordinary course of events, from birth to death, we all of us are
being called upon continuously to adjust ourselves to all sorts of
experiences, situations and emotional strains peculiar first to early
childhood, then the school epoch, the period of emancipation from home
and finally to the life work. And as we take our way, we develop habits
of meeting the sorrow and disappointments that come; the anxiety,
criticism, success, failure, illness, poverty and what not.
Some individuals habitually face the issues of life, whether large or
small, and habitually overcome difficulties for themselves and for other
people. They are described by the psychiatrists as being grown up, or
psychologically evolved.
Others follow the course of least resistance; never face their problems;
are thoughtless and inconsiderate in their demands; are unable to make
decisions and accordingly live upon the mental and moral strength of
others. Such people are referred to as being infantile, or
psychologically undeveloped. They are not unlike the baby who gets “what
he wants when he wants it” by the unreasoning method of screaming and
pounding upon his high chair with a spoon. He is scarcely more
irresponsible than the hysterical adult who gains her point by
developing a headache or fainting, flying into a rage or tearing her
clothes and smashing china. Such people make little or no adjustment to
unsatisfactory conditions and have poor capacity for endurance or
sacrifice.
With not a few women this poor capacity is a result of lifelong
indulgence or protection by unwise parents, and they never reason out
the question of obligation or responsibility because they never have to.
Everything is done for them. All rough places are so consistently
smoothed out that they never entertain the idea that effort or
adaptation on their part could possibly be in order.
There are others who cherish trouble, make difficulty where there need
be none and steadfastly refuse to acknowledge good fortune or see the
silver lining. This is their method of securing attention, much as the
baby cries or screams to the same end.
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