Obstetrical Nursing: A Text-Book on the Nursing Care of the Expectant Mother, the Woman in Labor, the Young Mother and Her BabyVan Blarcom, Carolyn Conant
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Obstetrical Nursing: A Text-Book on the Nursing Care of the Expectant Mother, the Woman in Labor, the Young Mother and Her Baby
Van Blarcom, Carolyn Conant
Infants -- Care; Maternity nursing; Pregnancy
When a well evolved individual has a desire which results from our
culture or civilization (a wish to preserve her grace or her luxuries,
for example), that is in conflict with a deeper primal instinct, she
will often be able to reason out the situation, and in the case of
approaching motherhood, decide that the baby is worth any sacrifice, any
inconvenience, and go joyfully through her period of expectancy. She
will glory in the consciousness of her ability to realize the supreme
purpose of a woman’s creation. In other words she adjusts herself to the
situation, harmonizes the discordant desires and is mentally
undisturbed.
A less well evolved woman, like a person with a delicate, easily upset
digestive tract, will have difficulty in making an adjustment—in
harmonizing her instinctive desire for motherhood and her acquired
desire for comfort, attention and the things demanded by convention. The
conflict may be violent enough to greatly upset her. This is
particularly true if the demands of our cultural state make it necessary
for the patient to keep this turmoil below the surface with no safety
valve to relieve the pressure.
This problem of the mother’s attitude toward the coming of the baby is
very general and varied as well. The mothers of families already large
and poverty stricken are usually quite frank in expressing their dismay
over the expected birth and lament the prospect of this extra burden,
but at the same time they decide to make the best of it and they succeed
in making a pretty satisfactory adjustment. Moreover, they do not feel
the necessity for concealing their feelings or do not “repress” them,
and accordingly find some relief in being candid.
The mothers of the middle and upper classes, however, are often
surrounded by an atmosphere of conventional codes that are stifling to
mental honesty. Accordingly they are less genuine in expressing their
true attitude toward the coming child. To many of them—the selfish,
self-centered type—the new baby will bring inconvenience rather than
hardship. The importance of their ego will be dimmed. There will be a
cutting down of luxuries and of freedom for social activities, and
increased responsibility with closer confinement to the home. And while
they give utterance to joy and pleasure over the prospect of having a
baby, this does not quite reflect their inmost feelings.
Not a few women find an outlet for the tension caused by their conflict
by being fretful and irritable or through conduct which they would have
displayed if annoyed or chagrined about something other than the
approaching birth of a child. Because of this outlet they are not so
likely to break down.
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