Christian antiquities -- Great Britain; Folklore -- Great Britain; Great Britain -- Social life and customs; Manners and customs
Drinking wine and ale at church weddings is by no means a local custom, as
suggested by Mr. Henderson's correspondent. Brand, in his "Popular
Antiquities," and other writers, refer to the subject. On drinking wine in
church at marriages, says Brand, "the custom is enjoined in the Hereford
Missal. By the Sarum Missal it is directed that the sops immersed in this
wine, as well as the liquor itself, and the cup that contained it, should
be blessed by the priest. The beverage used on this occasion was to be
drunk by the bride and bridegroom and the rest of the company." It appears
that pieces of cake or wafers were immersed in the wine, hence the
allusions to sops.
Many of the older poets refer to the practice. In the works of John
Heywood, "newlie imprinted 1576," is a passage as follows:
"The drinke of my brydecup I should have forborne,
Till temperaunce had tempred the taste beforne.
I see now, and shall see, while I am alive,
Who wedth or he be wise shall die or he thrive."
In the "Compleat Vintner," 1720, it is asked:
"What priest can join two lovers' hands,
But wine must seal the marriage bands?
As if celestial wine was thought
Essential to the sacred knot,
And that each bridegroom and his bride
Believ'd they were not firmly ty'd
Till Bacchus, with his bleeding tun,
Had finished what the priest begun."
Old plays contain allusions to this custom. We read in Dekker's
"Satiro-Mastix": "And, when we are at church, bring the wine and cakes."
Beaumont and Fletcher, in the "Scornful Lady," say:
"If my wedding-smock were on,
Were the gloves bought and given, the licence come,
Were the rosemary branches dipt, and all
The hippocras and cakes eat and drunk off."
At the magnificent marriage of Queen Mary and Philip, in Winchester
Cathedral, in 1554, we are told that, "The trumpets sounded, and they both
returned, hand in hand, to their traverses in the quire, and there
remained until mass was done, at which time wyne and sopes were hallowed,
and delivered to them both."
Numerous other notes similar to the foregoing might be reproduced from old
writers, but sufficient have been cited to show how general was the custom
in bygone times. The Rev. W. Carr, in his "Glossary of the Craven
Dialect," gives us an illustration of it lingering in another form in the
present century. In his definition of Bride-ale, he observes that after
the ceremony was concluded at the church, there took place either a foot
or horse race, the first to arrive at the dwelling of the bride,
"requested to be shown to the chamber of the newly-married pair, then,
after he had turned down the bed-clothes, he returns, carrying in his hand
a tankard of warm ale, previously prepared, to meet the bride, to whom he
triumphantly offers the humble beverage." The bride, in return for this,
presents to him a ribbon as his reward.
Marrying Children.
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