Country life -- England; England -- Social life and customs; Gentry -- England
Anciently but few people kept servants, and the servants they kept were
to a large extent drawn from their own class, were often their own
relatives. Pepys took his own sister to be servant in his house. 1660,
Nov. 12. "My father and I discoursed seriously about my sister coming
to live with me, and yet I am much afraid of her ill-nature. I told her
plainly my mind was to have her come, not as a sister but as a servant,
which she promised me she could, and with many thanks did weep for
joy." 1660-1, Jan. 2. "Home to dinner, where I found Pal (my sister)
was come; but I do not let her sit down at the table with me, which I
do at first that she may not expect it hereafter from me."
Sister Paulina's temper proved unendurable. On November 12, 1662, Pepys
writes--"By my wife's appointment came two young ladies, sisters,
acquaintances of my wife's brothers, who are desirous to wait upon
some ladies, and who proffer their services to my wife. The youngest
hath a good voice, and sings very well, besides other good qualitys,
but I fear hath been bred up with too great libertys for my family,
and I fear greater inconveniences of expenses--though I confess the
gentlewoman being pretty handsome and singing, makes me have a good
mind to her." This girl, the younger Gosnell, was engaged. On the 22nd
he writes, "This day I bought the book of country dances against my
wife's woman Gosnell comes, who dances finely."
On November 29. "My wife and I in discourse do pleasantly call Gosnell
over Marmotte."
On January 4, 1662-3. "My wife did propound my having of my sister
Pal again to be her woman, since one we must have."--Gosnell had been
required to attend on her uncle, a justice.--"It being a great trouble
to me that I should have a sister of so ill a nature, that I must be
forced to spend money upon a stranger, when it might better be upon
her if she were good for anything."
Here are a couple of entries that came close together in the register
of Ottery St. Mary concerning marriages--
"1657, September 7. George Trobridge, Gentleman, servant unto John
Vaughan, Esq., married Elizabeth, daughter of Nicolas Hancock."
"1658, April 8. Jonathan Browne, of Bridport, Gent, and Margaret
Harris, servant to Richard Arundell, gent."
That Margaret Harris was a gentlewoman admits of little doubt. In the
register of Woolbrough I remember seeing that the Yarde family of
Bradley had a cousin or two of the same name in service in their house.
Public-domain text, read in full here on John Shaqi.
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