Country life -- England; England -- Social life and customs; Gentry -- England
One looks back, with a little compunction, on those old times. There
was a freshness and charm about them which can never be recovered.
Every one in a village knew every one else, and all his belongings;
every one was related, and a stranger from a few miles off passed
as a foreigner. To "go foreign" was to leave the parish. This was,
of course, carried to extraordinary lengths in some places, and
neighbouring villages regarded each other with traditional jealousy.
This was not commendable. There is a story told of two villages, one
called Mary Tavy, the adjoining called Peter Tavy, that is to say, St.
Mary on the Tavy and St. Peter on the Tavy, on the borders of Dartmoor,
that regarded each other for ages with animosity. One day after a storm
of rain the river Tavy rolled down volumes of water, and a poor wretch
was caught by the flood on a rock in mid-stream; he was unable to reach
the bank. He screamed for assistance. Presently a man came along the
side and halted, and called to the fellow in danger, "I say, be you a
Peter Tavy or a Mary Tavy man?" "Peter Tavy," answered the wretch in
danger. "Throw me a rope, or I shall be drownded." "No, no," answered
he on the land, "I be a Mary Tavy man; so go on hollering till a Peter
Tavy chap comes by;" and he left the fellow in distress to his fate.
This exclusiveness had its bad side, but it had its redeeming side
also. There can be no question that the force of popular feeling, the
sense of relationship, the feeling of belonging to a certain village,
or class, did act as a strong moral support to many a young man and
woman. They felt that they dared not bring disgrace on their whole
class, or village, by misconduct. The sense of belonging to, being one
member of a community, in which, if one member were honoured, all the
members rejoiced with it, and if one were disgraced, the humiliation
fell on all, was very strong and tough. That is to an immense extent
gone, and can never be restored. We are all cosmopolitan now, and live
and die to ourselves.
But let us come to some of the peculiar features of old village life,
before there were railways, and when the post did not come every day.
[Illustration: Old Church Orchestra.]
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