Although this overthrow of old customs and sex ideals must be chiefly
attributed to the economic independence of women brought about through
the industrialism of our age, it is safe to say that no man thought
ahead far enough or understood the psychology of women sufficiently
to anticipate the fruit of this economic emancipation. As long as
women were dependent upon men for the support of themselves and their
children there could be no development of a real morality, for the
love and feelings of the woman were so intermingled with her economic
necessities that the higher love impulse was largely undifferentiated
from the impulse of self-preservation. True morality can only develop
when the object or situation is considered for itself, not when it is
bound up with ulterior and extraneous elements which vitiate the whole.
The old morality has failed and is disintegrating fast, because it was
imposed from without instead of evolving from within.
A morality which has value for all time and is not dependent upon
custom or external cultural fashions can arise only from a high
development of the psychological functions of thinking and feeling,
with the developed individual as the determiner of values instead of
general custom or some one else’s opinion. The function of feeling and
the realm of the emotions have been universally regarded as woman’s
special province; therefore it is women who are specially concerned
with testing out moral values involving sexual behavior. Women have
been reproached by men again and again as being only sexual creatures,
and they have meekly accepted the reproach. Now, instead of examining
the statement, they have accepted the sexual problem of men as though
it were their own, and with it the weight of man’s conflict and his
articulateness. For sexuality as a problem and a conflict definitely
belongs to man’s psychology; it is he primarily who has been ashamed
of his domination by this power and has struggled valiantly to free
himself; his egotistic and sexual impulses have always been at war with
each other. But whoever heard of women being ashamed of yielding to the
power of love? Instead they gloried in the surrender of themselves and
counted themselves blessed when love ruled. It is this need of man to
escape from the power of the sensual appeal that has made him scorn sex
and look upon the great creative power of life as something shameful
and inferior, and in modern days treat it as a joke or with the
indifferent superficiality which betrays emasculation and inadequacy.
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