This passive acceptance of the opinions of others has been most
disastrous for woman’s development. Her superior psychological
processes consist of feelings and intuitions, and when these are
stultified or violated by being forced into a false relation, or are
inhibited from development, the entire personality is crippled. The
inadequate development of the function of thought and the dominating
rôle played by the function of feeling in the psychology of woman have
produced an obviously one-sided effect and have caused men to postulate
theories about her, which are given forth as though they were the last
word to be said--fixed and unchangeable. Indeed the statement that
women are incapable of change and that no growth is possible for them
is one of the favorite assertions of the masculine writers upon the
subject of women’s psychology. As the present is the first time in our
historical period in which there has been any general opportunity for
women as a whole to think for themselves and to develop in new ways,
the basis for this assertion does not exist, and it obviously conceals
an unconscious wish that women should not change.
The effect of collective ideas and cultural traditions upon the
personality is immeasurable. The greatest general change that is
taking place today is the weakening of these ideas and the refusal
of women to be bound by them. Women are for the first time demanding
to live the forbidden experiences directly and draw conclusions on
this basis. I do not mean to imply that traditional moral standards
controlling woman’s sexual conduct have never been transgressed in the
past. They have very frequently been transgressed, but secretly and
without inner justification. The great difference today lies in the
open defiance of these customs with feelings of entire justification,
or even a non-recognition of a necessity for justification. In other
words, there has arisen a feeling of moral rightness in the present
conduct, and wrongness in the former morality. Actually the condition
is one in which natural, long-restrained desire is being substituted
for collective moral rules, and individuals are largely becoming a law
unto themselves. It is difficult to predict what will be the result
of the revolt, but it is certain that this is the preceding condition
which renders it possible for a new morality in the real sense to be
born within the individual. It has already produced the first condition
of all conscious psychic development--a moral conflict--and woman has
gained a problem.
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