Over Bemerton's : $b An easy-going chronicleLucas, E. V. (Edward Verrall)
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Over Bemerton's : $b An easy-going chronicle
Lucas, E. V. (Edward Verrall)
London (England) -- Social life and customs -- 20th century -- Fiction; Middle-aged men -- Fiction
I wish the original authors could have been present, not for their
happiness, I fear, but for their amazement at the change that has
come over children and parents; for I have no doubt they wrote it
quite earnestly and believed in its rightness, and to hear Kenneth's
comments alone would have startled them more than it would startle
that modern boy if the family Aberdeen terrier stood up and publicly
said grace in a loud voice.
The perfect child, as formed by this book, would be unbearable, and
probably never existed; but we must suppose that such works had their
place, and not so long ago either, although it is difficult to
project the imagination to that period, certain lines of thought
having so completely gone out. For example, what point is there now
in such a counsel as this:--
"Be not proud because you are above the vulgar, for there are others
above you."
It is probable that not even the poor put the case so baldly any
more, while as for what are called the middle-classes (if such exist,
but one can never find any one to admit belonging to them), they
certainly do not agree that they owe homage to any one, whatever they
may do in the presence of the titled.
The fact probably is that there is no longer any accessible
aristocracy. The old nobility is in hiding, while the new increases
so swiftly and apparently so capriciously that the ordinary citizen
no longer accepts it with the uncritical reverence as of old, but
looks the gift horse, so to speak, in the mouth. A lord is no
longer, as he used to be, a lord: he is a law-lord, or a life-peer,
or an ennobled brewer; something devilish like ourselves--we know his
woof and texture.
Again, with money now able to do so much more than blood, aristocrats
lose in that way too, to say nothing of their loss through blood
doing as much to get money as it has sometimes had to do.
England is still largely feudal, but it no longer includes among its
instructions to the young a section entitled, "Of Behaviour to
Superiors."
"Take off your hat when any great person passes by, though you do not
know him; it is a respect due to his rank."
That is meaningless to-day, and very happily so, I think; but I would
rather see it restored to the curriculum than such a disgusting
counsel as the following:--
"Be always pliable and obliging; for obstinacy is a fault of vulgar
children."
The next section treats of "Behaviour to Equals"--who again are no
longer mentioned among English people and cannot easily be found. It
is an odd position to recognise neither superiors nor equals; but we
can, most of us, fill it with distinction.
"Love all your equals and they will all love you."
"Always speak to them with respect, that they may treat you with
respect again."
"If any of them are cross, be you civil nevertheless: his
churlishness will disgrace him, while your good nature will gain you
love and esteem."
Public-domain text, read in full here on John Shaqi.
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