Oh, if we could all go out of flower as gracefully, as pleasingly, as we
come into blossom! I always think of the morning-glory as the loveliest
example of a graceful yielding to the inevitable. It is beautiful before
its twisted corolla opens; it is comely as it folds its petals inward,
when its brief hours of perfection are over. Women find it easier
than men to grow old in a becoming way. A very old lady who has kept
something, it may be a great deal, of her youthful feelings, who is
daintily cared for, who is grateful for the attentions bestowed upon
her, and enters into the spirit of the young lives that surround her,
is as precious to those who love her as a gem in an antique setting, the
fashion of which has long gone by, but which leaves the jewel the color
and brightness which are its inalienable qualities. With old men it is
too often different. They do not belong so much indoors as women do.
They have no pretty little manual occupations. The old lady knits or
stitches so long as her eyes and fingers will let her. The old man
smokes his pipe, but does not know what to do with his fingers, unless
he plays upon some instrument, or has a mechanical turn which finds
business for them.
But the old writer, I said to The Teacups, as I say to you, my readers,
labors under one special difficulty, which I am thinking of and
exemplifying at this moment. He is constantly tending to reflect upon
and discourse about his own particular stage of life. He feels that
he must apologize for his intrusion upon the time and thoughts of a
generation which he naturally supposes must be tired of him, if they
ever had any considerable regard for him. Now, if the world of readers
hates anything it sees in print, it is apology. If what one has to say
is worth saying, he need not beg pardon fur saying it. If it is not
worth saying I will not finish the sentence. But it is so hard to
resist the temptation, notwithstanding that the terrible line beginning
“Superfluous lags the veteran” is always repeating itself in his dull
ear!
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