Owen's Moral Physiology; or, A Brief and Plain Treatise on the Population QuestionOwen, Robert Dale
Philosophy
Owen's Moral Physiology; or, A Brief and Plain Treatise on the Population Question
Owen, Robert Dale
Birth control; Malthusianism
Although this marriage is but a civil contract, it should not be
forgotten that if injudiciously made or its obligations be not
fulfilled, the most calamitous results oftentimes ensue. Imagine a
bargain, made between two persons, in which both parties have assumed
more or less disguise or dissimulation towards the other, and which are
only discovered when the treaty cannot be annulled. The lady’s dower may
be handsome, or the gentleman’s prospects good and his pursuits most
thriving; their respective families and connexions may be equally
respectable, and neither consort nor husband have reason to regret that
part of the arrangement, which the world only sees or hears of. It may
be a love match, a match of many years’ making, a match in which the
most delicious of all anticipations assumed every likelihood of being
realized, and yet which one hour’s possession has destroyed. If the
denouement be not so sudden, there may grow up a secret sorrow, a sorrow
that has its source, like any other feeling, in some cause, just or
evil, by the discovery of some concealed hindrance to mutual love. There
may arise some justifiable personal dislike, there may be found to exist
some impediment to the full and proper enjoyment of those connubial
delights which instinct has taught each party to expect from the other.
It is true, and well it is so, that all marriages have not hidden
griefs, but that renders not those which have, the more endurable.
Marriage mostly is a matter of love, policy, or convenience; it ought no
less to be a matter of conscience. The legal right which the ceremony
gives to the man, of his wife, which alienates her from the world, which
enslaves her to his person and passions, or shuts her for ever out from
the indulgence of her own, should not be sought without reflection; for
although the law awards its punishment for infidelity which is sure to
follow such dissimulation, it is a poor compensation for the
mortification and distress which accompanies it. The very proceeding may
prove alike that nature, as well as honour, have been outraged. Love is
not the parent of sexual desire—it is the offspring; and if that
instinctive passion be frustrated or deprived of its just entitlement,
love soon loses its name, and goes one knows not whither. Yet there are
proper bounds to every thing, an excess is frequently attended with more
unhappy results than want.
The end of marriage, then, is to afford the legitimate use of amative
enjoyments; to regulate the procreation of children; to ensure
succession, and thereby transmit one’s property and identity; to
cultivate domestic happiness, and thereby give all an equal incentive
to aspire to the same possession; and also to afford protection when
so obtained. If any deception be practiced towards each other the
culpable party will incur, sooner or later, the rarely failing
punishment—disappointment in their pleasures, their domestic
anticipations, and their hopes of hereditary succession.
Public-domain text, read in full here on John Shaqi.
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