Parents and childrenMason, Charlotte M. (Charlotte Maria)
Philosophy
Parents and children
Mason, Charlotte M. (Charlotte Maria)
Child rearing; Education -- Parent participation
Two points call for our attention in this education of the senses; we
must assist the child to educate himself on Nature’s lines, and we must
take care not to supplant and crowd out Nature and her methods with
that which we call education. Object lessons should be incidental;
and this is where the family enjoys so great an advantage over the
school. It is almost impossible that the school should give any but
set lessons, but this sort of teaching in the family falls in with
the occurrence of the object. The child who finds that wonderful and
beautiful object, a “paper” wasp’s nest, attached to a larch-twig, has
his object lesson on the spot from father or mother. The grey colour,
the round symmetrical shape, the sort of cup and ball arrangement,
the papery texture, the comparative size, the comparative smoothness,
the odour or lack of odour, the extreme lightness, the fact that it
is not cold to the touch. These and fifty other particulars the child
finds out unaided, or with no more than a word, here and there, to
direct his observation. One does not every day find a wasp’s nest,
but much can be got out of every common object, and the commoner the
better, which falls naturally under the child’s observation, a piece of
bread, a lump of coal, a sponge. In the first place it is unnecessary
in the family to give an exhaustive examination to every object; one
quality might be discussed in this, another quality in that. We eat
our bread and milk and notice that bread is absorbent, and we overhaul
our experience to discover other things which we know to be absorbent
also, and we do what we can to compare these things as to whether they
are less absorbent or more absorbent than bread. This is exceedingly
important: the unobservant person states that an object is light and
considers that he has stated an ultimate fact: the observant person
makes the same statement, but has in his mind a relative scale, and
his judgment is of the more value because he compares it silently
with a series of substances to which this is relatively light. It is
important that children should learn to recognise that high, low,
sweet, bitter, long, short, agreeable, &c., &c., are comparative terms,
while square, round, black, white, are positive terms, the application
of which is not affected by comparison with other objects. Care in this
matter makes for higher moral, as well as intellectual development:
half the dissensions in the world arise from an indiscriminate use of
epithets. “Would you say your bread (at dinner) was light or heavy?”
The child would probably answer, “rather light.” “Yes, we can only say
that a thing is light by comparing it with others; what is bread light
compared with?” “A stone, a piece of coal, of cheese, of butter of the
same size.” “But it is heavy compared with?” “A piece of sponge cake,
a piece of sponge, of cork, of pumice,” and so on. “What do you think
it weighs?” “An ounce, an ounce and a half.” “We’ll try after dinner;
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