Parents and childrenMason, Charlotte M. (Charlotte Maria)
Philosophy
Parents and children
Mason, Charlotte M. (Charlotte Maria)
Child rearing; Education -- Parent participation
Flavour, again, offers a wide range for delicate discrimination. At
first sight it would appear difficult to cultivate the sense of flavour
without making a child more or less of a gourmand, but the fact is,
that the strong flavours which titillate the palate destroy the power
of perception. The young child who lives upon milk-foods has, probably,
more pleasure in flavour than the diner-out who is _au fait_ with the
confections of a _cordon bleu_. At the same time, one would prefer to
make flavour a source of interest rather than of sensuous pleasure to
children: it is better that they should try to discern a flavour with
their eyes shut, for example, than that they should be allowed to think
or say that things are “nice” or “nasty.” This sort of fastidiousness
should be cried down. It is not well to make a child eat what he does
not like, as that would only make him dislike that particular dish
always; but to let him feel that he shows a want of self-control and
manliness when he expresses distaste for wholesome food is likely to
have a lasting effect.
We have barely touched on the sorts of object lessons, appealing now
to one sense and now to another, which should come incidentally every
day in the family. We are apt to regard an American Indian as a quite
uneducated person; he is, on the contrary, highly educated in so far
as that he is able to discriminate sensory impressions, and to take
action upon these in a way which is bewildering to the book-learned
European. It would be well for parents to educate a child, for the
first half-dozen years of his life at any rate, on “Red Indian”
lines. Besides the few points we have mentioned, he should be able
to discriminate colours and shades of colour; relative degrees of
heat in woollen, wood, iron, marble, ice; should learn the use of the
thermometer; should discriminate objects according to their degrees of
hardness; should have a cultivated eye and touch for texture; should,
in fact, be able to get as much information about an object from a
few minutes’ study, as to its form, colour, texture, size, weight,
qualities, parts, characteristics, as he could learn out of many pages
of a printed book. We approach the subject by the avenue of the child’s
senses rather than by that of the objects to be studied, because just
now we have in view the occasional test exercises, the purpose of which
is to give thorough culture to the several senses. An acquaintance with
nature and natural objects is another thing, and is to be approached
in a slightly different way. A boy who is observing a beetle does not
consciously apply his several senses to the beetle, but lets the beetle
take the initiative, which the boy reverently follows: but the boy who
is in the habit of doing daily sensory gymnastics will learn a great
deal more about the beetle than he who is not so trained.
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