Parents and childrenMason, Charlotte M. (Charlotte Maria)
Philosophy
Parents and children
Mason, Charlotte M. (Charlotte Maria)
Child rearing; Education -- Parent participation
All this is well in its place, but should come quite
late, after the child has seen and studied the living growing thing _in
situ_, and has copied colour and gesture as best he can.
So of object lessons, we are not anxious to develop his observing
powers on little bits of everything which he shall describe as opaque,
brittle, malleable, and so on. We would prefer not to take the edge
off his curiosity in this way; we should rather leave him receptive
and respectful for one of those opportunities for asking questions and
engaging in talk with his parents about the lock in the river, the
mowing machine, the ploughed field, which offer real seed to the mind
of a child, and never make him a priggish little person able to tell
all about it.
Once more, we know that there is a storehouse of thought wherein we may
find all the great ideas that have moved the world. We are above all
things anxious to give the child the key to this storehouse.
The education of the day, it is said, does not produce _reading_
people. We are determined that the children shall love books, therefore
we do not interpose ourselves between the book and the child. We read
him his Tanglewood Tales, and when he is a little older his Plutarch,
not trying too much to break up or water down, but leaving the child’s
mind to deal with the matter as it can. We endeavour that all our
teaching and treatment of children shall be on the lines of nature,
_their_ nature and ours, for we do not recognise what is called
“Child-nature.” We believe that children are human beings at their
best and sweetest but also at their weakest and least wise. We are
careful not to water down life for them but to present such portions
to them in such quantities as they can readily receive. In a word we
are very tenacious of the dignity and individuality of our children.
We recognise steady, regular growth with no _transition_ stage. This
teaching is up to date, but it is as old as common sense. Our claim
is that our common sense rests on a basis of Physiology, that we show
a reason for all that we do, and that we recognise “the science of
the proportion of things,” put the first thing foremost, do not take
too much upon ourselves, but leave time and scope for the workings of
nature and of a higher Power than nature herself.
CHAPTER XXIII
_THE TEACHING OF THE PARENTS’ NATIONAL
EDUCATIONAL UNION_
PART II
As the philosophy which underlies any educational or social scheme is
really the vital part of that scheme, it may be well to set forth,
however meagrely, some fragments of P.N.E.U. Philosophy.
We believe--
That disposition, intellect, genius, come pretty much by nature.
That _character_ is an achievement, the one practical achievement
possible to us for ourselves and for our children.
That all real advance, in family or individual, or nation, is along the
lines of character.
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