Parents and childrenMason, Charlotte M. (Charlotte Maria)
Philosophy
Parents and children
Mason, Charlotte M. (Charlotte Maria)
Child rearing; Education -- Parent participation
Not only possible, but inevitable, if a man accept his “own reason” as
his lawgiver and judge. Take a test case, the case of the superlative
crime that has been done upon the earth. There can be no doubt that
the persons who caused the death of our Lord and Saviour Jesus Christ
acted under a mistaken sense of duty. “It is expedient that one man
die for the people, and that the whole nation perish not,” said, most
reasonably, those patriotic leaders of the Jews; and they relentlessly
hunted to death this Man whose ascendency over the common people and
whose whispered claims to kingship were full of elements of danger to
the subject race. “They know not what they do,” He said, Who is the
Truth.
All this may be of importance to philosophers; but what has it to do
with the bringing up of children?
It is time we reverted to the teaching of Socrates. “Know thyself,”
exhorted the wise man, in season and out of season; and it will be well
with us when we understand that to acquaint a child with himself--what
he is as a human being--is a great part of education.
It is difficult to see why; surely much harm comes of morbid
introspection?
Introspection is morbid or diseased when the person imagines that
all which he finds within him is peculiar to him as an individual.
To know what is common to all men is a sound cure for unhealthy
self-contemplation.
How does it work?
To recognise the limitations of the reason is a safeguard in all
the duties and relations of life. The man who knows that loyalty is
his first duty in every relation, and that if he admit doubting,
grudging, unlovely thoughts, he cannot possibly be loyal, because such
thoughts once admitted will prove themselves to be right and fill the
whole field of thought, why, he is on his guard, and writes up “no
admittance” to every manner of mistrustful fancy.
That rule of life should affect the Supreme relationship?
Truly, yes; if a man will admit no beginning of mistrustful surmise
concerning his father and mother, his child and his wife, shall he do
so of Him who is more than they, and more than all, the “Lord of his
heart”? “Loyalty forbids” is the answer to every questioning of His
truth that would intrude.
But when others, whom you must needs revere, question and tell you of
their “honest doubt”?
You know the history of their doubt, and can take it for what it is
worth--its origin in the suggestion, which, once admitted, must needs
reach a logical conclusion even to the bitter end. “Take heed that ye
_enter_ not into temptation,” He said, Who needed not that any should
tell Him, for He knew what was in men.
If man is the creature of those habits he forms with care or allows in
negligence, if his very thoughts are involuntary and his conclusions
inevitable, he ceases to be a free agent. One might as well concede at
once that “thought is a mode of motion,” and cease to regard man as a
spiritual being capable of self-regulation!
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