Parents and childrenMason, Charlotte M. (Charlotte Maria)
Philosophy
Parents and children
Mason, Charlotte M. (Charlotte Maria)
Child rearing; Education -- Parent participation
“The Waits!
Slowly they play, poor careful souls,
With wistful thoughts of Christmas cheer,
Unwitting how their music rolls
Away the burden of the year.
And with the charm, the homely rune,
Our thoughts like childhood’s thoughts are given,
When all our pulses beat in tune
With all the stars of heaven.”
--JOHN DAVIDSON.
In these levelling days we like to think that everybody has quite equal
opportunities in some direction; but Christmas joy, for example, is not
for every one in like measure. It is not only that those who are in
need, sorrow, or any other adversity do not sit down to the Christmas
feast of joy and thanksgiving; for, indeed, a Benjamin’s portion is
often served to the sorrowful. But it takes the presence of children
to help us to realise the idea of the Eternal Child. The Dayspring is
with the children, and we think their thoughts and are glad in their
joy; and every mother knows out of her own heart’s fulness what the
Birth at Bethlehem means. Those of us who have not children catch
echoes. We hear the wondrous story read in church, the waits chant the
tale, the church-bells echo it, and the years that are no more come
back to us, and our hearts are meek and mild, glad and gay, loving and
tender, as those of little children; but, alas, only for the little
while occupied by the passing thought. Too soon the dreariness of daily
living settles down upon us again, and we become a little impatient, do
we not, of the Christmas demand of joyousness.
But it is not so where there are children. The old, old story has all
its first freshness as we tell it to the eager listeners; as we listen
to it ourselves with their vivid interest it becomes as real and fresh
to us as it is to them. Hard thoughts drop away like scales from our
eyes; we are young once more with the children’s young life, which, we
are mysteriously made aware, is the life eternal. What a mystery it
is! Does not every mother, made wise unto salvation, who holds a babe
in her arms, feel with tremulous awe that that deep saying is true for
her also, “The same is my mother!” For the little child is the true St.
Christopher, in him is the light and life of Christ; and every birth
is a message of salvation, and a reminder that we, too, must humble
ourselves and become as little children. This is, perhaps, the real
secret of the world’s progress--that every babe comes into the world
with an evangel, which witnesses of necessity to his parents’ hearts.
That we, too, are children, the children of God, that He would have us
be as children, is the message that the new-born child never fails to
bear, however little we heed, or however soon we forget. It is well
that parents should ponder these things, for the child’s estate is a
holy one, and it is given to his parents to safeguard the little heir
of blessedness.
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