Parents and childrenMason, Charlotte M. (Charlotte Maria)
Philosophy
Parents and children
Mason, Charlotte M. (Charlotte Maria)
Child rearing; Education -- Parent participation
“You’re not quite right there. The child does not know he is naughty;
the emotions of ‘naughtiness’ are there; he is in a physical tumult,
but wilfulness has not set in; he does not yet _mean_ to be naughty,
and all is gained if we avert the set of the will towards wrong doing.
He has not had time to recognise that he is naughty, and his thoughts
are changed so suddenly that he is not in the least aware of what was
going on in him before. The new thing comes to him as naturally and
graciously as do all the joys of the childish day. The question of
desert does not occur.”
* * * * *
For a week all went well. Nurse was on the alert, was quick to note the
ruddy storm-signal in the fair little face; never failed to despatch
him instantly, and with a quiet unconscious manner, on some errand to
father or mother; nay, she improved on her instructions; when father
and mother were out of the way, she herself invented some pleasant
errand to cook about the pudding for dinner; to get fresh water for
Dickie, or to see if Rover had had his breakfast. Nurse was really
clever in inventing expedients, in hitting instantly on something to
be done novel and amusing enough to fill the child’s fancy. A mistake
in this direction would, experience told her, be fatal; propose what
was stale, and not only would Guy decline to give up the immediate
gratification of a passionate outbreak--for it _is_ a gratification,
that must be borne in mind--but he would begin to look suspiciously
on the “something else” which so often came in the way of this
gratification.
Security has its own risks. A morning came when Nurse was not on the
alert. Baby was teething and fractious, Nurse was overdone, and the
nursery was not a cheerful place. Guy, very sensitive to the moral
atmosphere about him, got, in Nurse’s phrase, out of sorts. He relieved
himself by drumming on the table with a couple of ninepins, just as
Nurse was getting baby off after a wakeful night.
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