Parents and childrenMason, Charlotte M. (Charlotte Maria)
Philosophy
Parents and children
Mason, Charlotte M. (Charlotte Maria)
Child rearing; Education -- Parent participation
“Don’t you think the child will be a hero in a very small way, when he
makes himself run away from his temper?”
“Not in a small way at all; the child will be a hero. But we cannot
be heroes all the time. In sudden gusts of temptation, God grant him
grace to play the hero, if only through hasty flight; but in what are
called besetting sins, there is nothing safe but the contrary besetting
good habit. And here is where parents have such infinite power over the
future of their children.”
“Don’t think me superstitious and stupid; but somehow this scientific
training, good as I see it is, seems to me to undervalue the help we
get from above in times of difficulty and temptation.”
“Let me say that it is you who undervalue the virtue, and limit the
scope of the Divine action. Whose are the laws Science labours to
reveal? Whose are the works, body or brain, or what you like, upon
which these laws act?”
“How foolish of me! How one gets into a way of thinking that God
cares only for what we call spiritual things. Let me ask you one more
question. I do see that all this watchful training is necessary, and do
not wish to be idle or cowardly about it. But don’t you think Guy would
grow out of these violent tempers naturally, as he gets older?”
“Well, he would not, as youth or man, fling himself on the ground and
roar; but no doubt he would grow up touchy, fiery, open at any minute
to a sudden storm of rage. The man who has too much self-respect for
an open exhibition may, as you know well enough, poor wife, indulge
in continual irritability, suffer himself to be annoyed by trifling
matters. No, there is nothing for it but to look upon an irate habit as
one to be displaced by a contrary habit. Who knows what cheerful days
we may yet have, and whether in curing Guy I may not cure myself? The
thing can be done; only one is so lazy about one’s own habits. Suppose
you take me in hand?”
“Oh, I couldn’t! and yet it’s your only fault, dear.”
“Only fault! well, we’ll see. In the meantime there’s another thing I
wish we could do for Guy--stop him in the midst of an outbreak. Do you
remember the morning we found him admiring himself in the glass?”
“Yes, with the photograph in his hand.”
“That was it; perhaps the Cross-man race will answer even in the middle
of a tempest. If not, we must try something else.”
“It won’t work.”
“Why not?”
“Guy will have no more rages; how then can he be stopped in
mid-tempest?”
“Most hopeful of women! But don’t deceive yourself. Our work is only
well begun, but that, let us hope, is half done.”
* * * * *
His father was right. Opportunities to check him in mid-career
occurred; and Guy answered to the rein. Mr. Cross-man worked wonders.
A record of outbreaks was kept; now a month intervened; two months; a
year; two years; and at last his parents forgot their early troubles
with their sweet-tempered, frank-natured boy.
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