Parents and childrenMason, Charlotte M. (Charlotte Maria)
Philosophy
Parents and children
Mason, Charlotte M. (Charlotte Maria)
Child rearing; Education -- Parent participation
“I’m afraid the child is no more constant to her loves than to her
play; she is a loving little soul, as you know, and is always adoring
somebody. Now it’s her father, now Juno, now me, now Hugh; and the
rain of warm kisses, the soft clasping arms, the nestling head, are
delicious, whether to dog or man. But, alas! Kitty’s blandishments are
a whistle you must pay for; to-morrow it is somebody else’s turn, and
the bad part is that she has only room for one at a time. If we could
get a little visit from you, now, Kitty would be in your pocket all day
long; and we, even Peggy, would be left out in the cold. But do not
flatter yourself it would last; I think none of Kitty’s attachments has
been known to last longer than two days.
“If the chief business of parents is to train _character_ in their
children, we have done nothing for Kitty; at six years old the child
has no more power of application, no more habit of attention, is no
more able to make herself do the thing she ought to do, indeed, has
no more desire to do the right thing, than she had at six months old.
We are getting very unhappy about it. My husband feels strongly that
parents should labour at character as the Hindoo gold-beater labours
at his vase; that _character_ is the one thing we are called upon to
effect. And what have we done for Kitty? We have turned out a ‘fine
animal,’ and are glad and thankful for that; but that is all; the child
is as wayward, as unsteady, as a young colt. Do help us, dear aunt.
Think our little girl’s case over; if you can, get at the source of the
mischief, and send us a few hints for our guidance, and we shall be
yours gratefully evermore.”
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