Parents and childrenMason, Charlotte M. (Charlotte Maria)
Philosophy
Parents and children
Mason, Charlotte M. (Charlotte Maria)
Child rearing; Education -- Parent participation
“It is doubly my fault, doctor, I see it all now. When Dorothy was a
child I _would_ not face the fact. It was too awful to think my child
would be as I still was. So we had many little fictions that both nurse
and mother saw through: the child was poorly, was teething still, was
overdone. The same thing, only more so, went on during her schoolroom
life. Dorothy was delicate, wanted stamina, must have a tonic. And
this, though we had a governess who tried to convince me that it
was temper and not delicacy that ailed my little girl. The worst of
deceiving yourself is that you get to believe the lie. I saw much less
of the schoolroom than of the nursery party, and firmly believed in
Dorothy’s frequent attacks of indisposition.”
“But, supposing you had faced the truth, what would you have done?”
“There is my excuse; I had no idea that anything could be done.”
“Now, please, don’t write me down a pagan if I try to show you what
might have been done, and may yet be done.”
“Doctor Evans!”
“Oh, yes, ’tis a fact; you good women are convinced that the setting
of a broken limb is a work for human skill, but that the cure of a
fault of disposition is for Providence alone to effect, and you say
your prayers and do nothing, looking down from great heights upon us
who believe that skill and knowledge come in here too, and are meant to
do so in the divine scheme of things. It’s startling when you come to
think of it, that every pair of parents have the absolute _making_ of
their child!”
“But what of _inherited_ failings--such cases as this of ours?”
“Precisely a case in point. Don’t you see, such a case is just a
problem set before parents with a, ‘See, how will you work out this so
as to pass your family on free from taint?’”
“That’s a noble thought of yours, Evans. It gives every parent a
share in working out the salvation of the world, even to thousands
of generations. Come, Mary, we’re on our promotion! To pass on our
children free from the blemishes they get from us is a thing worth
living for.”
“Indeed it is. But don’t think me narrow-minded, doctor, nor that I
should presume to think hard things of you men of science, if I confess
that I still think the ills of the flesh fall within the province of
man, but the evils of the spirit within the province of God.”
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