Parents and childrenMason, Charlotte M. (Charlotte Maria)
Philosophy
Parents and children
Mason, Charlotte M. (Charlotte Maria)
Child rearing; Education -- Parent participation
And she did not. It is five years since she had that talk in the
library with Dr. Evans (he died within the year, to our exceeding
regret). What battles she fought we never heard; never again was
the subject alluded to. For two years she was our constantly loving
and joyous home daughter; for three, she has been Arthur Brisbane’s
happy-hearted wife; and her little sunbeam of an Elsie--no fear that
she will ever enter the cloud in which mother and grandmother were so
nearly lost.
CHAPTER V
_CONSEQUENCES_
Have you ever played at “Consequences,” dear reader? This is how it
goes. He said to her, “It’s a cold day.” She said to him, “I like
chocolates.” The consequence was, they were both put to death, and the
world said, “It serves them right.”
Just so exquisitely inconsequent is the game of “consequences” in
real life--at which many a child is an unwilling player, and just so
arbitrary their distribution. We are all born heirs to all the Russias
if a certain aptness at autocratic government can be construed into a
title. Watch the children in the street play at keeping school; how
the schoolmistress lavishes “handers,” how she corners and canes her
scholars! And the make-believe scholars enter into the game. They would
do the same if they had the chance, and their turn will come.
How does it work in real life, this turn for autocracy, which, you may
observe, gives zest to most of the children’s games?
Little Nancy is inclined to be fretful; her nurse happens to be
particularly busy that morning looking out the children’s summer
clothing. She is a kind-hearted woman, and fond of Nancy, but, “Why
does the child whine so?” And a hasty box on the little ear emphasises
the indignant query. There is mischief already, which is the cause of
the whining; and, by that concussion, Nancy is “put to death,” like
the people in the game; not for a year or two, though, and nobody
associates nurse with the family sorrow; and she, for her part, never
thinks again of that hasty blow. But, you object, nurse is ignorant,
though kind; with the child’s parents, it is otherwise. Yes, but not
entirely otherwise. Mr. Lindsay, who is a book-lover, goes into his
den to find his little boy of four, making “card-houses,” with some
choice new volumes he has clambered after; down they go bump, and the
corners are turned, and the books unsightly objects evermore. “What
are you doing here, child? Go to the nursery, and don’t let me see you
here again!” Ah, me! Does he know how deep it cuts? Does he know that
the ten minutes romp with “father” in his room is the supreme joy of
the day for little Dick? And does he know that everything is for ever
and ever to a little child, whose experience has not yet taught him
the trick of hoping when things look dark? But, “It is for the child’s
good;” is it? Dick does not yet know what is wrong. “Never touch books
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