Parents and childrenMason, Charlotte M. (Charlotte Maria)
Philosophy
Parents and children
Mason, Charlotte M. (Charlotte Maria)
Child rearing; Education -- Parent participation
“Why, give her daily, or half-a-dozen times a day, lessons in truth.
Send her to the window: ‘Look out, Fanny, and tell me what you see.’
She comes back, having seen a cow where there is a horse. She looks
again and brings a true report, and you teach her that it is not true
to say the thing which is not. You send a long message to the cook,
requiring the latter to write it down as she receives it and send you
up the slate; if it is all right, the kiss Fanny gets is for speaking
the truth: gradually, she comes to revere truth, and distinguishes
between the facts of life where truth is all in all, and the wide
realms of make-believe, where fancy may have free play.”
“I do believe you are right, Emma; most of Fanny’s falsehoods seem to
be told in such pure innocence, I should not wonder if they do come
out of the kingdom of make-believe. At any rate, we’ll try Emma’s
specific--shall we, John?”
“Indeed, yes; and carefully, too. It seems to me to be reasonable, the
more so, as we don’t find any trace of malice in Fanny’s misleading
statements.”
“Oh, if there were, the treatment would be less simple; first, you
should deal with the malice, and then _teach_ the love of truth in
daily lessons. That is the mistake so many people make. They think
their children are capable of loving and understanding _truth_ by
nature, which they are not. The best parents have to be on the watch to
hinder all opportunities of misstatement.”
“And now, that you may see how much we owe you, let me tell you of
the painful example always before our eyes, which has done more than
anything to make me dread Fanny’s failing. It is an open secret, I
fear, but do not let it go further out of this house. You know Mrs.
Casterton, our friend’s wife? It is a miserable thing to say, but you
cannot trust a word she utters. She tells you, Miss So-and-So has a bad
kind of scarlet fever, and even while she is speaking you know it is
false; husband, children, servants, neighbours, none can be blind to
the distressing fact, and she has acquired the sort of simpering manner
a woman gets when she loses respect and self-respect. What if Fanny had
grown up like her?”
“Poor woman! and this shame might have been spared her, had her parents
been alive to their duty.”
CHAPTER VII
_ABILITY_
“Be _sure_ you call at Mrs. Milner’s, Fred, for the address of her
laundress.”
“All right, mother!” And Fred was half-way down the path before his
mother had time to add a second injunction. A second? Nay, a seventh,
for this was already the sixth time of asking; and Mrs. Bruce’s
half-troubled expression showed she placed little faith in her son’s
“All right.”
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