Parents and childrenMason, Charlotte M. (Charlotte Maria)
Philosophy
Parents and children
Mason, Charlotte M. (Charlotte Maria)
Child rearing; Education -- Parent participation
“Mrs. Clough is quite right. It’s ‘Up boys, and at it!’ we want to be;
so, my dear fellow, don’t let any graceful scruples on your part hinder
work.”
“Then, Henderson, as the most rabid of us all, you must begin.”
“I do not know that what I have to say should come first in order; but
to save time I’ll begin. What I complain of is the crass ignorance
of us--of myself, I mean. You know what a magnificent spectacle the
heavens have offered these last few frosty nights. Well, one of our
youngsters has, I think, some turn for astronomy. ‘Look, father, what a
great star! It’s big enough to make the night light without the moon.
It isn’t always there; what’s its name, and where does it go?’ The boy
was in the receptive ‘How I wonder what you are’ mood; anything and
everything I could have told him would have been his--a possession for
life.
“‘That’s not a star, it’s a planet, Tom,’ with a little twaddle about
how planets are like our earth, more or less, was all I had for his
hungry wonder. As for how one planet differs from another in glory, his
sifting questions got nothing out of me; what nothing has, can nothing
give. Again, he has, all of his own wit, singled out groups of stars
and, like Hugh Miller, wasn’t it?--pricked them into paper with a pin.
‘Have they names? What is this, and this?’ ‘Those three stars are the
belt of Orion’--the sum of my acquaintance with the constellations, if
you will believe it! He bombarded me with questions all to the point. I
tried bits of book knowledge which he did not want. It was a ‘bowing’
acquaintance, if no more, with the glorious objects before him that
the child coveted, and he cornered me till his mother interfered with,
‘That will do, Tom: don’t tease father with your questions.’ A trifling
incident, perhaps, but do you know I didn’t sleep a wink that night,
or rather, I did sleep, and dreamt, and woke for good. I dreamt the
child was crying for hunger and I had not a crust to give him. You
know how vivid some dreams are. The moral flashed on me. The child had
been crying to me with the hunger of the mind. He had asked for bread
and got a stone. A thing like that stirs you. From that moment I had
a new conception of a parent’s vocation and of my unfitness for it.
I determined that night to find some way to help ourselves and the
thousands of parents in the same ignorant case.”
“Well, but, Henderson, you don’t mean to say that every parent should
be an astronomer? Why, how can a man with other work tackle the study
of a lifetime?”
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