Parents and childrenMason, Charlotte M. (Charlotte Maria)
Philosophy
Parents and children
Mason, Charlotte M. (Charlotte Maria)
Child rearing; Education -- Parent participation
“Will you let me, as a parent, give you our explanation of these facts?
For, with deference to Dr. Brenton, who justly claims so much for his
craft, I think we parents deserve a pat, too. You may bring a horse
to the well, but you can’t make him drink. The advance, I think, is
not in intelligence, but in power of attention. This, the Fathers’ and
Mothers’ Club and its agencies recognise as the practical power of man;
that which makes all the difference between the able and successful
man and the poor lag-last. And yet it is not a faculty, but is the
power and habit of concentrating every faculty on the thing in hand.
Now this habit of attention parents, mothers especially, are taught
to encourage and cultivate in their children from early infancy. What
you regard with full attention, if only for a minute, you know, and
remember always. Think of the few scenes and conversations we all have
so vividly fixed that we cannot possibly forget them. Why? Because
at the moment our attention was powerfully excited. You reap some
benefit from this early training directly the boy goes to school. The
psychologists--not your craft, this time, Doctor--tell us that enormous
curiosity, a ravenous appetite for knowledge, is as natural to
children as bread-and-milk hunger. Put the two together; the boy has an
eager desire to know--has the power of fixing his whole mind on the new
thoughts set before him, and it’s as easy as A B C; of course he learns
with magical quickness. The field has been ploughed by the parents, and
you have only to sow your seed.”
Public-domain text, read in full here on John Shaqi.
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