Parents and childrenMason, Charlotte M. (Charlotte Maria)
Philosophy
Parents and children
Mason, Charlotte M. (Charlotte Maria)
Child rearing; Education -- Parent participation
but we have applied the principle in many directions. It is, indeed,
hardly possible to get beyond the ground covered by this so simple
sounding axiom: that is, it is hardly within our power to overstate the
possibilities of education. _Anything_ may be made of a child by those
who first get him into their hands. No doubt, propagandism becomes the
immediate duty of any who have perceived a saving principle for the
race. And efforts were made in many directions to bring before parents
of all classes the notion that the formation of habits is among the
chief aims of education. Our host’s EVENT is one of these efforts,
and the Parents’ Club spread like wildfire; every one was ready for
it, because people were beginning to feel the wretched uncertainty of
the casual method. How is it, they asked, that, bring up two boys in
the same way, and one turns out a villain, the other, a credit to his
family? Now, the ‘New Education’ deals entirely with individuals; not
with children, but with the child; the faulty habit is supplanted,
observe the word, the desirable habit produced, within a definite
period, say a month or so, and then the parents’ easy work is to keep
the child upon the lines of habit thus produced.”
“Now, stop a minute, Doctor, stop a minute! I’m afraid I’m about to
lose my easily won laurels. You, who are a classical scholar, must know
how familiar to the mind both of Roman and Greek was this doctrine of
habit. Again, a poet of our own, an eighteenth-century man--wasn’t he
Dryden?--expresses capitally the time-out-of-mind English feeling on
this subject--
“‘Children, like tender osiers, take the bow,
And, as they first are fashion’d, always grow;
For what we learn in youth, to that alone
In age we are by second nature prone.’”
“Most happy; but don’t you see, Dr. Oldcastle, I began by admitting
that people have always had a notion that they must bring up their
children in good habits, and suppress faulty ones. But now, they
have something more than a notion; they have scientific certainty.
And, instead of dawdling through the whole period of childhood with
spasmodic efforts to get a boy to tie his shoe-strings fast, they take
it in hand once and for all, keep incessant watch for the week or two
it will take to form the habit, and then the thing is done with for
a lifetime. The new habit once formed, the parent’s part is no more
than to watch against chance returns to the old ways until the habit
is ingrained in the stuff of the child’s character. Now, don’t you see
that this is a very different thing from the desultory way in which a
child was allowed to try off and on for a habit all his days, and never
got it?”
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