Parents and childrenMason, Charlotte M. (Charlotte Maria)
Philosophy
Parents and children
Mason, Charlotte M. (Charlotte Maria)
Child rearing; Education -- Parent participation
But one custom overcomes another. The watchful mother sets up new
tracks in other directions; and she sees to it, that while she is
leading new thoughts through the new way, the old, deeply worn “_way_
of thinking” is quite disused. Now, the cerebrum is in a state of
rapid waste and rapid growth. The new growth takes shape from the
new thoughts: the old is lost in the steady waste, and the child is
_re_formed, physically as well as morally and mentally. That the
nervous tissue of the cerebrum should be thus the _instrument_ of the
mind need not surprise us when we think how the muscles and joints
of the tumbler, the vocal organs of the singer, the finger-ends of
the watchmaker, the palate of the tea-taster, grow to the uses they
are steadily put to; and, much more, both in the case of brain and of
bodily organs, grow to the uses they are _earliest_ put to.
This meets in a wonderful way the case of the parent who sets himself
to cure a moral failing. He sets up the course of new thoughts,
and hinders those of the past, until the _new_ thoughts shall have
become automatic and run of their own accord. All the time a sort of
disintegration is going on in the place that held the disused thoughts;
and here is the parent’s advantage. If the boy return (as, from
inherited tendency, he still may do) to his old habits of thought,
behold there is no more place for them in his physical being; to make a
new place is a work of time, and in this work the parent can overtake
and hinder him without much effort.
Here, indeed, more than anywhere, “Except the Lord build the house,
they labour but in vain that build it;” but surely intelligent
co-operation in this divine work is our bounden duty and service. The
training of the will, the instruction of the conscience, and, so far
as it lies with us, the development of the divine life in the child,
are carried on simultaneously with this training in the habits of a
good life; and these last will carry the child safely over the season
of infirm will, immature conscience, until he is able to take, under
direction from above, the conduct of his life, the moulding of his
character into his own hands. It is a comfort to believe that there is
even a material register of our educational labours being made in the
very substance of the child’s brain; and, certainly, here we have a
note of warning as to the danger of letting ill ways alone in the hope
that all will come right by-and-by.
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