Parents and childrenMason, Charlotte M. (Charlotte Maria)
Philosophy
Parents and children
Mason, Charlotte M. (Charlotte Maria)
Child rearing; Education -- Parent participation
1. The object of the Union shall be to unite, strengthen, and assist
fathers and mothers in the discharge of their parental duties.
2. Members shall be pledged, by the fact of their joining, to supervise
the education of their own children, and to urge the responsibility of
the parental relationship upon other parents.
3. Lesson sketches shall be furnished monthly to each family in
connection with the Union.
4. Members shall bring their children to the monthly catechising, and
sit with them, &c., &c.
Probably the “lesson-sketches” are to secure that the children do just
such Bible-lessons at home with their parents on Sunday as they have
hitherto done at the Sunday-school with teachers.
It seems to be contemplated that parents of every class will undertake
their proper duties in this matter, and that the Sunday-school may be
allowed to drop, the clergyman undertaking instead to ascertain, by
means of catechising, that certain work is done month by month.
The scheme seems full of promise. Nothing should do more to strengthen
the bonds of family life than that the children should learn religion
at the lips of their parents; and, to grow up in a church which takes
constant heed of you from baptism or infancy, until, we will not say
confirmation, but through manhood and womanhood, until the end, should
give the right tone to corporate life.
No doubt we have parishes, and even whole denominations, in which the
young people are taken hold of from first to last; but then it is by
clergy, teachers, class leaders, and so on; and all parents do not
regard it as an unmixed blessing that the most serious part of their
children’s training should be undertaken by outsiders. The thing that
seems most worthy of imitation in this Australian movement is, that
parents themselves are recognised as the fit instructors of their
children in the best things, and that they are led to acknowledge some
responsibility to the Church with regard to the instruction they give.
But do we manage these things so well “at home” that we have no
occasion to look about us for hints? It may be in the memories of
some of us, that in May 1889, a Committee of the House of Laymen
for the Province of Canterbury was appointed to examine into the
religious education of the upper and middle classes.[8] The committee
considered that they might obtain a good basis for their investigations
by examining into the religious knowledge of boys entering school.
They sent a paper of inquiries to sixty-two head-masters, most of
whom sent replies; and from these replies the committee were led to
conclude that, “for the most part, the standard of religious education
attained by boys before going to school is far below what might be
hoped or expected; and that even this standard, thus ascertained to
be far too low, is deteriorating; and further, that the chief cause
of deterioration is considered to be the want of home-teaching and
religion.”
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