Parents and childrenMason, Charlotte M. (Charlotte Maria)
Philosophy
Parents and children
Mason, Charlotte M. (Charlotte Maria)
Child rearing; Education -- Parent participation
“Parents and teachers should endeavour to answer such questions as
these: When do the first stirrings of the moral sense appear in the
child? How do they manifest themselves? What are the emotional and the
intellectual equipments of the child at different periods, and how do
these correspond with its moral outfit? At what time does conscience
enter on the scene? To what acts or omissions does the child apply the
terms right or wrong? If observations of this kind were made with care
and duly recorded, the science of education would have at its disposal
a considerable quantity of material, from which, no doubt, valuable
generalisations might be deduced. Every mother, especially, should
keep a diary in which to note the successive phases of her child’s
physical, mental, and moral growth, with particular attention to the
moral; so that parents may be enabled to make a timely forecast of
their children’s character, to foster in them every germ of good, and
by prompt precautions to suppress, or at least restrain, what is bad.”
We are glad to find that Mr. Adler reinstates fairy tales. He says,
justly, that much of the selfishness of the world is due, not to actual
hard-heartedness, but to a lack of imaginative power; and adds, “I
hold that something, nay, much, has been gained if a child has learned
to take the wishes out of its heart, as it were, and to project them on
the screen of fancy.” The German _Märchen_ hold the first place in his
regards. He says: “They represent the childhood of mankind, and it is
for this reason that they never cease to appeal to children.”
“But how shall we handle these _Märchen_? and what method shall we
employ in putting them to account for our special purpose? My first
counsel is, Tell the story. Do not give it to the child to read. The
child, as it listens to the _Märchen_, looks up with wide-opened eyes
to the face of the person who tells the story, and thrills responsive
to the touch of the earlier life of the race, which thus falls upon its
own.” That is, our author feels, and rightly so, that traditions should
be orally delivered. This is well worth noting. His second counsel is
equally important. “Do not,” he says, “take the moral plum out of the
fairy tale pudding, but let the child enjoy it as a whole.... Treat the
moral element as an incident, emphasise it indeed, but incidentally.
Pluck it as a wayside flower.”
Mr. Felix Adler’s third counsel is, to eliminate from the stories
whatever is merely superstitious, merely a relic of ancient animism,
and, again, whatever is objectionable on moral grounds. In this
connection he discusses the vexed question of how far we should
acquaint children with the existence of evil in the world. His
conclusion is one with which we shall probably be inclined to agree.
Public-domain text, read in full here on John Shaqi.
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