Parents and childrenMason, Charlotte M. (Charlotte Maria)
Philosophy
Parents and children
Mason, Charlotte M. (Charlotte Maria)
Child rearing; Education -- Parent participation
While we believed that thought was purely volatile, incapable of
impact upon matter, or of being acted upon by matter, our theories of
education were necessarily vague. We could not catch our Ariel; how
then could we school him? But now, the physiologists have taught us
that our wilful sprite rests with the tips of his toes, at any rate,
upon solid ground; nay more, his foothold is none so slight but that it
leaves footmarks behind, an impress on that domain of the physical in
which we are somewhat at home. The impalpable thoughts that we think
leave their mark upon the quite palpable substance of the brain, set
up, so the physiologists tell us, connections between the nerve-cells
of which that organ is composed; in fact, to make a long story short,
the cerebrum “grows to the uses it is earliest and most constantly
put to.” This fact opens up a function of education upon which M.
Fouillée hardly touches, that most important function of the formation
of habits--physical, intellectual, moral. “Sow an act, reap a habit;
sow a habit, reap a character; sow a character, reap a destiny,” says
Thackeray. And a great function of the educator is to secure that acts
shall be so regularly, purposefully, and methodically sown that the
child shall reap the habits of the good life in thinking and doing,
with the minimum of conscious effort.
We are only now beginning to discover how beneficial are the laws which
govern our being. Educate the child in these habits and the man’s life
will run in them, without the constant wear and tear of the moral
effort of decision. Once, twice, three times in a day, he will still,
no doubt, have to choose between the highest and the less high, the
best and the less good course. But all the minor moralities of life
may be made habitual to him. He has been brought up to be courteous,
prompt, punctual, neat, considerate; and he practises these virtues
without conscious effort. It is much easier to behave in the way he
is used to, than to originate a new line of conduct. And this is so,
because it is graciously and mercifully ordered that there shall be
a physical record and adaptation as the result of our educational
efforts; and that the enormous strain of moral endeavour shall come
upon us only occasionally. “Sow a habit, reap a character;” that is,
the formation of habits is the chief means whereby we modify the
original hereditary disposition of the child until it becomes the
character of the man.
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