Parents and childrenMason, Charlotte M. (Charlotte Maria)
Philosophy
Parents and children
Mason, Charlotte M. (Charlotte Maria)
Child rearing; Education -- Parent participation
“Little ones, whose parents are habitually drunk.... Whose ideas
of merriment are gained from the familiar spectacle of the nightly
debauch.”
“The obscenity of the talk of many of the children of some of our
public schools could hardly be outdone, even in Sodom and Gomorrah.”
And the childhood--save the word!--of the children of to-day reproduces
the childhood of their parents, their grand-parents, who knows? their
great-grand-parents. These are, no doubt, the worst; but the worst
must be reckoned with first, for if these slip through the meshes of
the remedial net, the masses more inert than vicious slide out through
the breaks. In the first place, then, the scheme embraces the vicious
by inheritance; proposes to mix up with the rest a class whose sole
heritage is an inconceivable and incalculable accumulation of vicious
inclinations and propensities. And this, in the face of that conception
of heredity which is quietly taking possession of the public mind, and
causing many thoughtful parents to abstain from very active efforts to
mould the characters of their children.
Those of us whose attention has been fixed upon the working of the
law of heredity until it appears to us to run its course, unmodified
and unlimited by other laws, may well be pardoned for regarding with
doubtful eye a scheme which has, for its very first condition, the
regeneration of the vicious; of the vicious by inherited propensity.
THE LAW AGAINST US--HABIT.
Use is second nature, we say. Habit is ten natures; habit begins as a
cobweb, and ends as a cable. “Oh, you’ll get used to it,” whatever it
is. Dare we face the habits in which these people have their being? It
is not only the obscene speech, the unholy acts; that which signifies
is the manner of thoughts we think; speech, act, are the mere outcome;
it is the habitual thought of a man which shapes that which we call his
character. And these, can we reasonably doubt that every imagination of
their heart is only evil continually? We say, use is second nature, but
let us consider what we mean by the phrase; what is the philosophy of
habit so far as it has been discovered to us. The seat of habit is the
brain; the actual grey nervous matter of the cerebrum. And the history
of a habit is shortly this: “The cerebrum of man grows to those modes
of thought in which it is habitually exercised.” That ‘immaterial’
thought should mould the ‘material’ brain need not surprise nor
scandalise us, for do we not see with our eyes that immaterial thought
moulds the face, forms what we call countenance, lovely or loathsome
according to the manner of thought it registers. The _how_ of this
brain growth is not yet in evidence, nor is this the time and place
to discuss it; but, bearing in mind this structural adaptation to
confirmed habit, what chance, again, we say, has a scheme which has for
its first condition the regeneration of the vicious, vicious not only
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