“I incline to your opinion,” cried Vincent, laughing. “The reason we dislike vanity in others, is because it is perpetually hurting our own. Of all passions (if for the moment I may call it such) it is the most indiscreet; it is for ever blabbing out its own secrets. If it would but keep its counsel, it would be as graciously received in society, as any other well-dressed and well-bred intruder of quality. Its garrulity makes it despised. But in truth it must be clear, that vanity in itself is neither a vice nor a virtue, any more than this knife, in itself, is dangerous or useful; the person who employs gives it its qualities; thus, for instance, a great mind desires to shine, or is vain, in great actions; a frivolous one, in frivolities: and so on through the varieties of the human intellect. But I cannot agree with Mr Clarendon, that my admiration of Algernon Sidney (Cato I never did admire) would be at all lessened by the discovery, that his resistance to tyranny in a great measure originated in vanity, or that the same vanity consoled him, when he fell a victim to that resistance; for what does it prove but this, that, among the various feelings of his soul, indignation at oppression, (so common to all men)--enthusiasm for liberty, (so predominant in him)--the love of benefiting others--the noble pride of being, in death, consistent with himself; among all these feelings, among a crowd of others equally honourable and pure--there was also one, and perhaps no inconsiderable feeling of desire, that his life and death should be hereafter appreciated justly--contemptu famoe, contemni virtutem--contempt of fame, is the contempt of virtue? Never consider that vanity an offence, which limits itself to wishing for the praise of good men for good actions: next to our own esteem, says the best of the Roman philosophers, ‘it is a virtue to desire the esteem of others.’” “By your emphasis on the word esteem,” said Lady Roseville, “I suppose you attach some peculiar importance to the word?” “I do,” answered Vincent. “I use it in contradistinction to admiration. We may covet general admiration for a bad action--(for many bad actions have the clinquant, which passes for real gold)--but one can expect general esteem only for a good one.” “From this distinction,” said Ellen, modestly, “may we not draw an inference, which will greatly help us in our consideration of vanity; may we not deem that vanity, which desires only the esteem of others to be invariably a virtue, and that which only longs for admiration to be frequently a vice?”