Personal Friendships of JesusMiller, J. R. (James Russell)
Philosophy
Personal Friendships of Jesus
Miller, J. R. (James Russell)
Jesus Christ -- Friends and associates
We may think of the eagerness of her heart to get into his presence
when she heard that he was near. What a relief it must have been to
her, after the noisy grief that filled her home, to get into the quiet,
peaceful presence of Jesus! He was not disturbed. His face was full
of sympathy, and it was easy to see there the tokens of deep and very
real grief, but his peace was not broken. He was calm and composed.
Martha must have felt herself at once comforted by his mere presence.
It was quieting and reassuring.
The first thing to do when we need comfort is to get into the presence
of Christ. Human friendship means well when it hastens to us in our
sorrow. It feels that it must do something for us, that to stay away
and do nothing would be unkindness. Then, when it comes, it feels that
it must talk, and must talk about our sorrow. It feels that it must go
over all the details, questioning us until it seems as if our heart
would break with answering. Our friends think that they must explore
with us all the depths of our grief, dwelling upon the elements that
are specially poignant. The result of all this "comforting" is that
our burden of sorrow is made heavier instead of lighter, and we are
less brave and strong than before to bear it. If we would be truly
comforted we would better flee away to Christ; for in his presence we
shall find consolation, which gives peace and strength and joy.
It is worth our while to note the comfort which Jesus gave to these
sorrowing sisters. First, he lifted the veil, and gave them a glimpse
of what lies beyond death. "Thy brother shall rise again." "I am the
resurrection, and the life: he that believeth on me, though he die, yet
shall he live: and whosoever liveth and believeth on me shall never
die." Thus he opened a great window into the other world. It is
plainer to us than it could be to Martha and Mary; for a little while
after he spoke these words, Jesus himself passed through death, coming
again from the grave in immortal life. It is a wonderful comfort to
those who sorrow over the departure of a Christian friend to know the
true teaching of the New Testament on the subject of dying. Death is
not the end; it is a door which leads into fulness of life.
Perhaps many in bereavement, though believing the doctrine of a future
resurrection, fail to get present comfort from it. Jesus assured
Martha that her brother should rise again. "Yes, I know that he shall
rise again in the resurrection at the last day." Her words show that
this hope was too distant to give her much comfort. Her sense of
present loss outweighed every other thought and feeling. She craved
back again the companionship she had lost. Who that has stood by the
grave of a precious friend has not experienced the same feeling of
inadequateness in the consolation that comes from even the strongest
belief in a far-off rising again of all who are in their graves?
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