Personal Friendships of JesusMiller, J. R. (James Russell)
Philosophy
Personal Friendships of Jesus
Miller, J. R. (James Russell)
Jesus Christ -- Friends and associates
What is true in common human relations was true in a far more wonderful
way of the friendship of Jesus. We have only to recall the story of
his three years with his disciples. They gave him at the best a very
feeble return for his great love for them. They were inconstant, weak,
foolish, untrustful. They showed personal ambition, striving for first
places, even at the Last Supper. They displayed jealousy, envy,
narrowness, ingratitude, unbelief, cowardice. As these unlovely things
appeared in the men Jesus had chosen, his friendship did not slacken or
unloose its hold. He had taken them as his friends, and he trusted
them wholly; he committed himself to them absolutely, without reserve,
without condition, without the possibility of withdrawal. No matter
how they failed, he loved them still. He was patient with their
weaknesses and with their slow growth, and was not afraid to wait,
knowing that in the end they would justify his faith in them and his
costly friendship for them.
Jesus thought not of the present comfort and pleasure of his friends,
but of their highest and best good. Too often human friendship in its
most generous and lavish kindness is really most unkind. It thinks
that its first duty is to give relief from pain, to lighten burdens, to
alleviate hardship, to smoothe the rough path. Too often serious hurt
is done by this over-tenderness of human love.
But Jesus made no such mistakes in dealing with his friends. He did
not try to make life easy for them. He did not pamper them. He never
lowered the conditions of discipleship so that it would be easy for
them to follow him. He did not carry their burdens for them, but put
into their hearts courage and hope to inspire and strengthen them to
carry their own loads.
He did not keep them secluded from the world in a quiet shelter so that
they would not come in contact with the world's evil nor meet its
assaults; his method with them was to teach them how to live so that
they should have the divine protection in the midst of spiritual
danger, and then to send them forth to face the perils and fight the
battles. His prayer for his disciples was not that they should be
taken out of the world, thus escaping its dangers and getting away from
its struggles, but that they should be kept from the world's evil. He
knew that if they would become good soldiers they must be trained in
the midst of the conflict. Hence he did not fight their battles for
them. He did not save Peter from being sifted; it was necessary that
his apostle should pass through the terrible experience, even though he
should fail in it and fall. His prayer for him was not that he should
not be sifted, but that his faith should not altogether fail. His aim
in all his dealings with his friends was to train them into heroic
courage and invincible character, and not to lead them along flowery
paths through gardens of ease.
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