Physician and patient : $b or, a practical view of the mutual duties, relations and interests of the medical profession and the communityHooker, Worthington
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Physician and patient : $b or, a practical view of the mutual duties, relations and interests of the medical profession and the community
Hooker, Worthington
Medical ethics; Physician and patient; Physicians; Quacks and quackery
A little girl, the daughter of a farmer, had her arm torn to pieces
up to the elbow in a threshing machine constructed very much like a
picker. As her mother was confined to her bed with severe sickness,
the child was carried into the house of a neighbor. When I arrived,
I was told that her mother was in great distress, and fears were
expressed that the accident would have a very bad influence upon her
case. I asked if she knew what had happened. ‘No,’ said her husband,
‘not exactly. She found out by the children that Mary was hurt, and
then sent for me, and asked me what was the matter. I told her at
first that she had got her finger hurt. She said she knew that was
not all, and I at length, after she had begged and begged me to tell
all, told her that her hand was hurt badly. And now she is crying
most piteously, and says that we are deceiving her, and that she
knows that Mary is almost killed.’
I immediately went in to see the mother, and found her indeed almost
distracted with the great variety of dread visions that had suggested
themselves to her fancy in regard to her darling child. As I entered
the room she cried out, ‘Oh, she’s dead, doctor, or dying—torn to
pieces—in agony—Oh, isn’t it so? tell me, tell me the truth!’ ‘Be
quiet,’ said I, ‘and I _will_ tell you all the truth. I will not
deceive you.’ I assured her that she need give herself no anxiety
about the _life_ of her child—that was safe. This announcement
quieted her in a good measure, and I went on to tell her that the
arm was badly torn, and that I must amputate it above the elbow.
I told her that this would take but a minute or two, and then the
child would be essentially well. It was necessary to go into these
particulars in answer to her inquiries, (which were the more minute
from the fact that she had been deceived,) or else I should forfeit
her confidence, and thus commit the same error that had already been
committed. She thanked me for being so frank with her, and said, that
though it was hard to think of the operation, she could bear that,
if the child’s life was only spared. She grieved still, it is true;
but there was none of that overwhelming distraction that results from
vague apprehension.
Fourthly. The destruction of confidence, resulting from discovered
deception, is productive of injurious consequences to the persons
deceived. The moment that you are detected in deceiving the sick, you
at once impair or even destroy their confidence in your veracity and
frankness. Everything that you do afterward is suspected, and a full
and unshrinking trust is not accorded to you even when you deserve
it, though you may try to obtain it by the most positive and solemn
assurances. If, for example, you wish to encourage a patient, and you
tell him that though the bow of hope is dim to his eye, it is bright
to your own: ‘Ah!’ he will think, if he does not say, ‘how do I know
but that it is as dim to him as it looks to me—he has deceived me
once, and perhaps he does now.’
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