Practical Religion: Being Plain Papers on the Daily Duties, Experience, Dangers, and Privileges of Professing ChristiansRyle, J. C. (John Charles)
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Practical Religion: Being Plain Papers on the Daily Duties, Experience, Dangers, and Privileges of Professing Christians
Ryle, J. C. (John Charles)
Christian life -- Anglican authors
The principle here laid down ought to be carefully remembered by all
unmarried Christians in the choice of a husband or wife. I fear it is
too often entirely forgotten. Too many seem to think of everything
except religion in choosing a partner for life, or to suppose that it
will come somehow as a matter of course. Yet when a praying,
Bible-reading, God-fearing, Christ-loving, Sabbath-keeping Christian
marries a person who takes no interest whatever in serious religion,
what can the result be but injury to the Christian, or immense
unhappiness? Health is not infectious, but disease is. As a general
rule, in such cases, the good go down to the level of the bad, and the
bad do not come up to the level of the good. The subject is a delicate
one, and I do not care to dwell upon it. But this I say confidently to
every unmarried Christian man or woman,--if you love your soul, if you
do not want to fall away and backslide, if you do not want to destroy
your own peace and comfort for life, resolve never to marry any person
who is not a thorough Christian, whatever the resolution may cost you.
You had better die than marry an unbeliever. Stand to this resolution,
and let no one ever persuade you out of it. Depart from this resolution,
and you will find it almost impossible to "come out and be separate."
You will find you have tied a mill-stone round your own neck in running
the race towards heaven; and, if saved at last, it will be "so as by
fire." (1 Cor. iii. 15.)
I offer these six general hints to all who wish to follow St. Paul's
advice, and to come out from the world and be separate. In giving them,
I lay no claim to infallibility; but I believe they deserve
consideration and attention. I do not forget that the subject is full of
difficulties, and that scores of doubtful cases are continually arising
in a Christian's course, in which it is very hard to say what is the
path of duty, and how to behave. Perhaps the following bits of advice
may be found useful.--In all doubtful cases we should first pray for
wisdom and sound judgment. If prayer is worth anything, it must be
specially valuable when we desire to do right, but do not see our
way.--In all doubtful cases let us often try ourselves by recollecting
the eye of God. Should I go to such and such a place, or do such and
such a thing, if I really thought God was looking at me?--In all
doubtful cases let us never forget the second advent of Christ and the
day of judgment. Should I like to be found in such and such company, or
employed in such and such ways?--Finally, in all doubtful cases let us
find out what the conduct of the holiest and best Christians has been
under similar circumstances. If we do not clearly see our own way, we
need not be ashamed to follow good examples. I throw out these
suggestions for the use of all who are in difficulties about disputable
points in the matter of separation from the world. I cannot help
thinking that they may help to untie many knots, and solve many
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