Practical school discipline : $b Applied methods, part 2Beery, Ray Coppock
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Practical school discipline : $b Applied methods, part 2
Beery, Ray Coppock
School discipline; Teachers
When a child tells on his classmates, he is usually either
over-conscientious or out of sympathy with them. Miss Field might
quietly have accepted the paper, and thus have avoided increasing the
estrangement between Sigrid and her classmates. She should then have set
about finding the cause of Sigrid’s isolation, and devised ways of
making her one of the group. She should have known that Sigrid’s pitiful
paper was a bid for the approbation and love which her isolation denied
her; it was the blind feeling for common ground with another human
being, which Sigrid missed because her relations with the other children
were not healthful.
COMMENTS
It is usually the out-of-the-set child who tattles; when his relations
with the set are normal, he will not practice tale-bearing. Tattling
which grows out of pure love of mischief or pure malevolence is very
rare.
ILLUSTRATION (EIGHTH GRADE)
[Sidenote: Visiting Poolroom]
Several boys from the London eighth grade were reported to be
frequenting the poolroom. The question was who planned and led the
fellows in breaking the school rules and the State laws.
The teacher easily ascertained that three particular boys were in the
company, but there were others and the chief offender was not yet named.
Superintendent McMadsen took hold of the situation. He met the three
boys and said:
“Now we are not planning any sort of punishment, even though the law
permits it. We want everybody to speak frankly and talk the matter over
freely. You boys are old enough to be summoned as witnesses and made to
tell who was with you in the poolroom. But that isn’t the best way.
“The proper thing to do is for you and me to come to an agreement as to
what we should do about this matter in the future. Then I want you to
tell the other boys also to come to me and talk the matter out.”
The matter lay for a week before the last boy appeared. The talks were
brief, but the moral victory of individual action on the issue was worth
the patient delay.
CASE 120 (EIGHTH GRADE)
Portia Armstrong attended the moving picture show one evening and said
to her teacher next day:
[Sidenote: Proposes Joy Rides]
“Ben Sawyer and some of the boys sat just behind us girls and said,
‘Say, girls, let’s steal out and take a joy ride like that some night.’”
“O, Portio, what did you let him talk to you for? Never repeat anything
such a boy says. I think it’s ridiculous the way girls and boys talk
nowadays. I simply don’t want to hear of any such foolish going-on.”
Portia took her teacher at her word. She told her nothing of what the
boys said to the girls after that.
CONSTRUCTIVE TREATMENT
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