Practical school discipline : $b Applied methods, part 2Beery, Ray Coppock
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Practical school discipline : $b Applied methods, part 2
Beery, Ray Coppock
School discipline; Teachers
Nevertheless the public school teacher has a large responsibility. He
must attempt to improve the character of the child in every way
possible. Obviously, the cure of selfishness can be had only by
associating with other people. It depends upon the teacher to manipulate
these associations in school so as to aid in reforming character at this
point.
Just as clearly, the more startling instances of selfishness necessitate
care that the rights of other pupils be preserved. This happens so
frequently as to demand no elaborate argument.
The teacher’s concern for the general improvement of the moral life of
the school requires that striking instances of selfishness should be
adequately dealt with.
Lastly, selfishness is a prolific source of other wrongs. If an
administrator can cure a selfish child, he has nipped in the bud a whole
harvest of undesirable actions and immoral deeds.
[Sidenote: First Grade]
No teacher would ever think of punishing a first grade child in any way
whatever for being selfish. The selfish child is usually an only child
or has been made selfish in his desires, by home training. The teacher
can do much to overcome selfishness. When a pupil enters the first
grade, for the first time, he comes in contact with other children and
into surroundings that are new. This is the teacher’s opportunity. The
chances are that the child will often display selfish tendencies. It is
necessary that the teacher have the child’s confidence, but by this time
it is assumed that the teacher has many avenues already mapped out by
which to get this needed confidence. Then the thing to do is to teach
the child unselfishness each time he displays selfish tendencies. It
will take but a few weeks to effect some change in the selfish child.
In extreme cases it may be well for the teacher to give the child
something for the express purpose of asking him to share it with his
playmates—candy, pictures or any little, inexpensive article that a
child enjoys.
For example, if the teacher has given candy, she may say, “Now, break it
in two pieces and give one piece to Mary.” When the child has done so
the teacher should approve the act. It will incline the child away from
selfishness for the teacher to say, “You are kind to give Mary some of
your candy.” “I like the way you divide with others,” or, “You like to
give things to others, don’t you?” This last statement of approval will
require the child to reply, “Yes.” This is a necessary positive reaction
of the child and a few trials like this may overcome his selfishness.
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