Practical school discipline : $b Applied methods, part 2Beery, Ray Coppock
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Practical school discipline : $b Applied methods, part 2
Beery, Ray Coppock
School discipline; Teachers
Sometimes gossip or misunderstanding causes parents to oppose the
teacher very bitterly. In such a case it is expedient that the teacher
go to see the parents and have matters understood, assuring them she
will use every means to do what is right and that the parents’
assistance will be of great value.
5. Submission to the Ringleader
(1) _Lower grades._ Even in the kindergarten certain children in every
class stand out as leaders. In classes above the kindergarten this
characteristic of leadership appears more and more strongly. If the
leader throws his influence alongside that of the teacher, well and
good. The teacher has thus a strong ally. If the leader arrays himself
against the teacher, then the teacher’s own influence is weakened and in
many cases seriously crippled. In the lower grades such an antagonistic
attitude on the part of a single pupil may not be a very serious matter,
but in the higher grades, and especially in high school, where the clan
spirit dominates, a single pupil may turn an otherwise successful term
into a failure. It is highly important then for the teacher to
understand how best to overcome an unwholesome leadership on the part of
the pupil.
There is but one basis upon which the teacher can operate such
principles of control as will secure the hearty coöperation of the
pupils. That basis is the possession of their confidence. The teacher
_must_ have the confidence of her pupils. It _must_ be a confidence that
is deep and sympathetic. It cannot be superficial. The pupil is a keen
judge and will detect a superficial attitude of the teacher. But the
teacher who feels in her heart a love for every boy and girl, a love
that desires to do the best for them, to build and strengthen their
characters, can not be superficial. It has been said elsewhere, that
whatever increases the confidence of pupils in the teacher lessens the
necessity of outer control, and whatever lessens the confidence
increases the necessity of outer control. This is an important fact and
the teacher cannot too thoroughly study it. It is the teacher who loses
patience with the boy, when he shows the first signs of waywardness, who
fails to attain the ideal in school-room control, who consequently loses
the boy’s confidence, thereby increasing the difficulty of control. Such
a boy, if he is a natural leader, will form a clique of his own and
place himself at its head. He and his clan will see to it that mischief
does not languish in that school. The teacher wonders why the boy
regards her good admonitions so lightly. He would regard and heed them,
if she had not lost his confidence. What, then, shall the teacher do to
regain and keep the faith and loyalty of every pupil?
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